On receiving pain in relationships

 

On receiving pain in relationships

  

Humko unse wafa ki hai ummeed jo nahin jaante wafa kya hai…

हमको उनसे वफ़ा की हैं उम्मीद जो नहीं जानते वफ़ा क्या हैं।  

I expect fidelity from the one who doesn’t know what it means…

Is my pain because of my “misplaced expectations”?    

Ask yourself this question every time you feel cheated, hurt, disappointed or exploited in your relationship?

Does it happen always with you?

Or does it happen with only one person in your life?

Does that one person do the same with all or is he so with only you?

Answer these questions honestly and face the answers with courage. The answers give you the solution many times.

You are suffering may be not because you HAVE TO but because you are looking at the entire issue from the wrong direction. Ask the right questions and many pain is done away with in life. Is this one such kind of pain and suffering in your life?

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# shayari on relationships and expectations, expectations, toxic persons, selfish, jealousy, people who hurt,

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/01/me-my-guru-on-relationships.html