On grace. receiving and wish being fulfilled!
The world owes you Nothing!
It was here FIRST!
God owes you Nothing too!
He was here FIRST! If anything, I owe Him, not the other way....
What have you got to say?
Tuesday, May 28, 2019
On grace. receiving and wish being fulfilled!
On grace. receiving and wish being fulfilled!
The world owes you Nothing!
It was here FIRST!
God owes you Nothing too!
Saturday, May 25, 2019
on surrender!
On surrender!
I have often seen people say "I ask HIM to take the decision on my behalf and yet HE gives me what I don't want!"....
or
"Why can't HE know what I want by looking into my heart and give me instead of giving me what I ASK HIM for?"
Read through the statements more than just couple of times......
even if you understand it the first time, read it more than once.....
Now do you see where the problem is?
For help go through : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=ask+and+it+shall+be+given
https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=wish+fulfilled
https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=getting+what+you+want
Friday, May 24, 2019
on quote!
Be in the moment!
We must live in the moments of the present not the prospects of the future!
Thursday, May 23, 2019
on blessings!
On blessings!
One thing that can convert a curse into a blessing and vice versa is "The attitude".
So, work on the attitude and the things and events will follow suit accordingly...
You are where you are because of who you are!
https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=you+are+where+you+are+because+of+who+you+are
on fate - Ghalib!
On fate!
हातोँ की लक़ीरों पे मत जा ग़ालिब ,
नसीब उनके भी होते हैं जिनके हाथ नहीं होते।
don't search for your fate in the lines of your palms,
even those who don't have hands have their destiny written......
Then where is our fate written and how?
https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=fate+and+destiny
Wednesday, May 22, 2019
Just a note!
Type your posts/comments in a separate file, then paste it in the comments section. This way even if the post /comments is not being accepted by the blog couple of times (I don't know why it is happening, but there seems to be some problem there....) you wouldn't get bored or tired due to this....
Tuesday, May 21, 2019
On blessings!
On blessings!
Are curse and blessing interchangeable?
Can we do that?
What is one thing that changes a "curse" into a "blessing" and a "blessing" into a "curse"?
https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=blessing
Monday, May 20, 2019
On blessings!
On blessings!
Whenever there is arrogance, ego, selfishness, greed, lust to control in Whatever you receive and from whomsoever, it becomes "The Curse!"...
and wherever there is gratitude, humility, gratefulness, acceptance, respect and purity everything received becomes a "blessing"!
Friday, May 17, 2019
On Truth!
(Continued ...)
On Truth!
As rightly observed by you, some of the issues don’t need to be addressed at all – infact they heal faster if ignored. But some issues need to be addressed immediately to get over the problem once and for all! Now, the problem is when to heal and when to over look an issue? And correctly putting them in the right bracket is a life-time learning and unlearning (for most of us!) process. But is there a way to learn it faster? Is there a way to address an issue whenever we face one?
Yes – one most important and all time effective – the one panacea for all such disease for all such disease is ‘look within’. Yes, every time we face an issue that gives us pain or suffering or both, we feel anger, irritated or helpless or if we are in fear, sit to know the cause of ‘such of emotion’. Don’t justify them! If you do, you are losing yourself from finding the solution or addressing the problem. Just accept your emotion. Own it! Don’t think or say “if he had been good, I wouldn’t get angry!” etc. Don’t!
Once you own your emotion, now go within and check where you are getting it from. Again don’t lose yourself in pointing fingers at others! External reasons can trigger those emotions but it was within you always! Only when you understand and accept this will you face yourself honestly and face this Truth with courage.
Next would be the easiest part – healing. Use various techniques taught to you in various degrees and go about healing yourself of ‘this uncomfortable emotion’ once and for all from your system.
But all this is not possible till we ‘see’ Truth and acknowledge it.
PS : If it is not clear, ask, I’ll try explaining it again…
also read :https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=facing+
Thursday, May 16, 2019
On Truth!
(Contd .. from the previous post on Truth where few instances are given to understand when to let it go and when to sit and heal the situation...)
Every
‘A’ situation can be ignored and it would heal itself. Yes, small pain or lose –
physical, mental, financial can just be ignored and it would heal itself. Even a
death of relationship or a person dear to us gets healed over time. Time is a
good healer – provided we let it! But,
if we keep revisiting the pain and keep pinching or scratching it, it becomes poisonous.
But in situation ‘B’ by ignoring we are letting the problem become big and at later day it may become so big as to not be in a place to heal at all!
Any life-style disease if addressed – at any time can be reversed or at least stop or slow down its’ growth by taking corrective measures – say right life-style choices.
By pushing it under the carpet we reach at no solution!
Louise Hay – motivational speaker was diagnosed with cancer and she instead of going through the painful way of surgery and chemo instead chose to alter her way of thinking and living which was the cause – in the first place for her to get cancer and lo! She healed herself of the cancer much to the wonder of family and Doctors.
contd......
Sunday, May 5, 2019
On Truth!
On Truth!
Some
said it is fine to ignore as the situation would heal itself and others said ‘Truth’
can’t be brushed aside to heal itself. It has to be faced and only then we can
outgrow the fear that comes with the Truth and then we also can attend to it
with honesty. Both are right but at two difference situations. Let’s see few of
such situation to understand this better.
I give
below few instances for you to go through and say when in the following
situations it’s ok to ignore ‘the Truth’ and when it is not. When if ignored, the situation doesn’t heal
itself and when it heals itself if ignored!
1 A:
one is cutting vegetables and gets a small cut – not too deep just a small one –
hardly few drops of blood oozes out.
1 B:
one has a major accident and couple of broken bones
2 A:
one looses Rs.100/- and is in immense pain and crying
2 B:
one has a business loss of say couple of crores.
3 A:
one has a break-up, divorce, loss of a dear one to death
3 B:
one’s partner /kid is a repeated
offender – say stealing, gambling, losing in business again and again et so.
4 A:
one has a bruise
4 B:
one has arthritis / acutely anemic / cancer
5 A:
one lies to throw ‘surprise party’
5 B:
one lies for no reason and is a regular compulsive liar
6 A:
friend / colleague /boss / relative taunts /teases / insults
6 B:
one gets hospitalized or requires first-aid for regular physical and mental
abuse
7 A:
qualities or feelings like boredom, being relaxed etc
7 B:
feelings of anger, hatred, jealousy, irresponsibility etc
8 A:
someone lies about where they have been to avoid confrontation
8 B:
someone lies with the intention to cheat
Most
common issues and situations have been given to you to decide where it is fine
to ignore and still it would work itself out and in which of cases it is must
to confront and face it to heal it?
Saturday, May 4, 2019
just a thought!
My doubts left me shattered and your beliefs healed you!
What does this mean to you?
How do you understand this and apply in your life and its experiences?
Can you relate with it in some way?
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