Freedom through work and relationship!

 

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Freedom through work and relationship!

We are not sent to this world to enjoy it. That is where we are stuck. We think our life is to enjoy it the way we want to. It does seem so in some cases. But that is not so in their cases also. Everyone is given a situation so that they can learn a lesson, undo the harm they have done for themselves and others. They are given an opportunity to heal their karma.

So, we are given so many relationships to work our karma. We tolerate some, hate others and ignore many. But, nowhere we have learned to love. As long as we don’t learn to love the ones we have in life, we never can be fulfilled or satisfied in any of our “new” relationships. Hard but real fact of life!

So, look around! Find the relationships which have dent in them. Heal them. Address them. Use them to learn about yourself. Grow along with healing these relationships and lo! Even when you weren’t looking for it, love enters your life – just like that!

Concluded.....

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# freedom, enlightenment, moksh, on relationships, karma and destiny, fate, working out our karma, purpose of relationships, use work to heal karma,

also read suggested: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/02/me-my-guru-on-intent-and-travelling.html 

you may read the entire post if you please though I have given link to a part only. 

Questions addressed and points to ponder:

• How to release ourselves of our karma through our relationships and work?
• This world is the very place that can help us become free of it!
• The purpose of this World and life is ONLY to help us work out our freedom.
• Every fool uses this World and life to get bound to it.
• The one who wakes up realises his folly and uses this World and life to become free!

Freedom through work and relationship!

 

Freedom through work and relationship!

The mystic says “Work your freedom through your work and relationships”.

It is easier to practice detachment when we are working. Work can be anything – official, social or mundane routine of our daily life. As we work through our day, we are given umpteen chances to practice detachment.

We have lots of relationships in life. Yet, we go seeking that “one missing” in life to complete our lives and our needs. We assume that the relationship that we are seeking is the key to our satisfaction and happiness. It never is! Even all those who got what they chased would vouch for this! But, we don’t want to listen to these words however told and by whomsoever! We have our arguments and logic to sell our “need” to the other and the world! But alas! Even if our job is well done in being able to “sell our need” and in “justifying our need and fulfillment of our desire” it is not going to go our way just because you are good at selling it. We receive what is needed by us to learn or unlearn our lessons in life. Not as per our desire. 

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# freedom, enlightenment, moksh, on relationships, karma and destiny, fate, working out our karma, purpose of relationships, use work to heal karma,

also read suggested: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/01/work-cure-from-all-emotions-and-answer.html 

Questions addressed and points to ponder:

• The one that binds us is the very one that can release us from it!
• Freedom from work is the dream of a lazy, dependent and irresponsible person.
• Freedom from work binds us more with our karma.
• Freedom can be worked only through work.
• Both denial and negativity towards work bind us to it.
• Only love and detachment release us from relationships.

Celebrating the success of our healing!

 

Celebrating the success of our healing!

Some of you must have done healing for the safety of “Construction workers trapped in an Indian tunnel for the past 17 days”. All of them are safe and rescued at last!

Celebrations and a sigh of relief to every Indian!!!

Let’s be grateful to Reiki. We just did reiki and it kept its honour by saving them!

Read this sentence “n” number of times to understand it.

So, we can be grateful for our prayers granted. Do it the following ways:

·   
     Make a sweet dish and “bhog chadawoh” – make Prasad and distribute to few people you know.

·        Make few packets of food and distribute it to the needy.

·        Plant a tree and take care of it for just one year and then it will grow on its own.

Choose one or all of the above to show your gratitude.

Let’s celebrate “safe coming of workers who almost lost their lives. Let’s thank them for they are responsible for making our lives better – when the infrastructure of that tunnel is completed, then it is you and me who will be benefitted by it. They were in danger to make our lives easy and comfortable. We owe them at least this much.

For few more days, you can continue sending reiki to “Earth” with the intention that it goes to heal them and make it easier for them to come out of this trauma.

I trust you all to take the right decision.

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Guru Nanak’s Jayanthi

 

Guru Nanak’s Jayanthi

Yesterday was birthday centenary of one of the greatest Gurus of India. He is the founder of “Sikhism”.

Let’s send Reiki to any one of the Gurus, if not to Guru Nanak today remembering and validating their contribution in our lives. Those who like or follow Nanakji, send Reiki to him as a form of gratitude to him.

Others, can send Reiki to any of the Gurus like Paramahamsa, Paramacharya also called as walking Saint of India, Ramana maharshi, Mahavatar Baba, Raghavendra Swami, Madhvachary, Gautama Buddha, Mahaveer Jain, Jesus and others like them.

If you don’t have any Gurus, then send Reiki to heal the Earth as a form of gratitude to all the Gurus.

Choice is yours to make.

Listen to Gurubaani –it’s so soothing and beautiful! https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/02/indian-mythology-advaitha-god-as.html

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also read:    https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2022/11/guru-nanak-jayanthi-2022.html          

A small homework to do with “Grace healings”

A small homework to do with “Grace healings”

ONLY a few of you have been receiving “Grace healings” for the past few days.

Let’s do a small homework. Do go through all the posts of Grace healings again “https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=grace+healings”

Now, answer a simple question. Why are the people who are receiving Grace healings receiving it?

What is the eligibility we are talking about here?

Who are the ones who will receive it?

Is receiving these healings ‘their right”?

Are they entitled to receive it?

This is compulsory question. All should answer it – well, at least all those who have received these healings should!

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Travel light!

 

Travel light!

Everyone who has travelled will tell you that more the luggage, difficult the journey. And they are the few who travel light and enjoy the journey. Journey becomes cumbersome to those who carry lots of baggage. Any change of plans can be easily mitigated by those who travel light.  

So it is with everyone in life too! One who travels light goes far and easy. He is the one who enjoys this flight called life! And those who carry lots of baggage huff and puff throughout the journey. They get tired too easily. They are the ones who suffer through this journey unnecessarily too!

Now, the question is, are we carrying only the essential or are we carrying unnecessary baggage with us?

Do we take time to sit and look at our baggage and see if we can unload most of it?

Carry the luggage and leave the baggage!

Then, life becomes a song that can be sung!!!

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Each of these links teaches you something. Are you available for that learning this time? 

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/08/travel-light.html

and

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2016/05/are-we-carrting-unnecessary-luggage.html 

 

 

 

 

        

 

  

Forgive doesn't mean forget - always!

 

Forgive doesn't mean forget - always!

Healing a relationship doesn’t mean accepting them back in our life. No! not always. It depends on the harm the other has caused us and others in our lives. Sometimes, it is an irreparable loss. When we heal, we don’t let them enter our lives. We just forgive them. Not because they deserve it, but because we deserve so much better than them in our life. As long as we are stuck with resentment towards them, we can’t move forward, so we heal ourselves. We heal and forgive them. So that, we can move forward – without them too in many cases. But that doesn't mean we forget what they did or who they are and bring them back to life. Sometimes, these people won't and don't want to change and they can only harm us in every way possible. Then, forgive them but don't bring them back in life. Forget them too but not the lesson they taught you. 

We have forgiven them. They no longer harm us emotionally. They can’t hurt us in our memory with what they did to us. That’s where it all ends. We also can bless them for a better clarity of thought in their life. But then, that ends there, for some relationships. If we have healed completely that relationship and learned all that we need to from it then we move on from them. If we have cleared our debts with them, then they no longer are part of our present life and next life too for sure. They fall off our lives as a ripe fruit falls off the tree it is held to. However much the fruit wants to hold on, it can’t. Even if the tree wishes to hold on to it, it can’t. That’s nature! So is the case with relationships too.

So don’t worry about those relationships that are bitter and painful. If you are holding on to your side of healing sincerely and without any malice in heart, then once the debt is cleared and the lesson learned, they move on. But, if you are still full of hatred for them, you’ll be wedded to them not only in this life but also in next lives to come. In this life even if you move away from them after a bitter fight, if you haven’t healed, then they will enter your life for sure either in this life or the next life – for sure – till you have healed it completely. This syllabus is something that no one can cheat on.

So, the sensible ones heal and get it over with in this very life so that they don’t have to face the same painful relationships again in any of their future lives.

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   # forgiveness, toxic relationships, intent, on love, being abused and calling it love, forgive but don't forget, mindfulness, know themselves, who are you, compassion, self-love, peace of mind, disturbing emotions, disturbing mind, disciplined mind, calmness within, 

also read suggested: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/10/the-mystic-says-on-forgiveness.html    

Points to ponder:     

• Forgiveness is a must for our growth. 
• Forgiveness is not a word. It is an action word. It takes years at times to forgive what one has done to us. Some can forgive with just a thought and a little understanding. But all that depends on the individual. 
• To forgive we need to work on our hurt, resentment, anger and related feelings and emotions, every single day of our life. We need to heal them layer by layer. But commitment to heal should be our ultimate resolve.
• To forgive doesn't mean act as if nothing happened. It may not happen in some cases. Then move on, just don't carry the hurt within and hatred for that person/s. That is called forgiveness.
• Never forget what that person has done and don't let that person enter your life again - if that person is toxic and hasn't changed for better.
• Accept the other person only if he genuinely seeks forgiveness and pleads for it. He should repent his actions and words. Then such person can be taken back in your life.
• If the person is not shameful for what he said or did, then DON'T take him back. 
• The one who takes him back should be so strong that he is not hurt by the other's actions which will eventually be hurting him once again - as he hasn't changed for better. 

Read to know further on this topic : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/01/on-hindi-poems.html

      

My Wow moments! Evening sky!

 

My Wow moments! Evening sky!

Went for a walk on the terrace. Saw a full glowing evening “setting Sun”. Wow to that!

And I turned to take a walk, and lo! There was a moon “almost full today” in all its glory! Wow to that too!

What a rare sight for me! Seeing both of them at the same time!

Watched Sunset and Moonrise at the same time!!!! Wow! Wow! wow!

Praise the Lord who created them!

Praise the Nature for all its glory!

Praise the eyes for soaking in that beauty!

Praise to my legs for carrying me on to the terrace!

Praise my heart which beckoned me to terrace!

Praise my watch for reminding me the time to go!

Praise the stairs to let me climb them!

Praise the Lord for all this glory to be seen.

Praise the One that drunk all this beauty in silence!

What does seeing Sun and Moon at a time tell you?

What does that reflect to you?

Is there anything good or special about it?

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# wow moments, beingness, being with Nature, awareness, lessons from the Nature, wonders of this World, miracles of everyday, 

also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=sunsets    

On valuing right and its consequences!

 

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On valuing right and its consequences! 

Know that you are not paying the person. You are paying in exchange for the services you are seeking from that person. You are happy paying for theatres. You are happy paying for amusement parks in thousands. For one-day fun, people are ready to pay in thousands. People don’t think twice before buying sarees and dresses worth Rs. 10,000/- and above also. And yet, for knowledge that helps them to mitigate their suffering they are questions??? For knowledge that helps them to mend their relationships, they are suffering????

Just look at your priorities. Just look at your value systems. There is a large gap between giving and receiving both in your belief system and your actions. Know that! Look within. Where is this value system coming from? Why do you want to take more from a person who is working to ease your life and yet you are happily paying to a person who doesn’t contribute anything substantial in your life? Think about it.

When you look at yourself, you have the answer. This is THE REASON for the karma – THE DEBT. ONLY those who pay happily and right value to the person who does physical labour and the person of knowledge will be happy, successful, satisfied, content and peaceful. Such are the people who will be reducing their debts from their karma account. And the rest, you know the story. Look within and all around you for this part of the story!

Basis of karma is ALWAYS - DEBT. One who takes more than what he gives accrues more of it - even in present time! Remember that! And work out your karma in every aspect of your life!!!

Give, give, give - give more than you receive. Give 10 times more than what you receive. That is the secret to reducing your karma the easy way!

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# karma, indebtedness, debt, basis of karma, giving and receiving, fate and destiny, 

also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/01/love.html 

and

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/08/peace-of-mind.html