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Neetu singh – an award winner actress of yesteryears retired in the prime of her career in her early twenties and Bomman Irani started his career in his 50’s when most people usually hang their boots.

Rajeev Gandhi became PM when he was just 40 years  the youngest PM  of India and most probably in the world but just 47years old when died whereas Modi became PM when he was 66 years old and is still going strong. 

I know a girl wedded by 20 and widowed by 22 and another person married when he was in his 40’s and in his late 60’s still happily married. So, you see there is nothing as ‘right time’ for any of these events to happen in any body’s life. Each is experiencing these events as per ‘their time zone’. That’s all! Never before, never after!

Jo jo jab jab hota hai,

So so tab tab hona hai....

Whatever happens and whenever it happens, it happens for good!

There is a reason and season for everything to happen in life!

So, just because few ‘events’ don’t happen ‘now’ when you want them doesn’t give you a reason to be sad and dejected.

If people are assessing your worthiness based on these events, then, let it be their problem – not yours. Don’t let them decide your state of existence, emotions and happiness! Never! The advice you gave me, now it’s time to apply it to our own sweet self! Who is most important and dearer to you than yourself? If you can’t value yourself beyond events of your life and your achievements, then it doesn’t matter what others value you as!!! You know this – Just apply it! NOW!

Agreed you are looking forwards to experiencing these stations of life – but that doesn’t mean you become angry, desperate and depressed as you are not YET there!

They will happen. Learn to celebrate this wait! Learn to enjoy this phase of your life because if you learn it now you can enjoy any phase of life.

You said that I should feel worthy and I understand it as ‘Be happy’ inspite of ‘not doing anything worthwhile’. Then doesn’t the same apply to your life too? Can’t you be ‘NOT ANGRY’ or listless, lost, sad even when few things are not happening as per your desire. I said they are happening as per ‘HIS DESIGN’ – wait and you say ‘then He is sadist, egoist etc’ for not giving to you inspite of your worthiness. May be He is, but even that shouldn’t stop YOU from celebrating life. That is my way of seeing things.You decide how you want your attitude to be.....

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