Shaayari on those who are dear - Galib
Hamein tho apnon ne hai loota
Gairon mein kahan dam thi
Doobi apni kashthi bhi waheen
Jahan paani kam thi…
हमें तो अपनों ने है लूटा
ग़ैरों में कहाँ दम थी
डूबी अपनी कश्ती भी वहीं
जहाँ पानी कम थी। - Ghalib
Where did others have the guts to do the same
My ship also sank where
The water was not deep enough!
Only the person who you love the most has the power to hurt you! Those you give a damn can't hurt you!!!
This is the worst kind of pain and suffering! Work on it - it may take years to get over this pain. And yet, keep working on it, till it no longer has an impact on you!
You loving and trusting them reflects who you are - soul that couldn't see through manipulations, lies, cheating because you never did that yourself!
Remember, a thief can see ONLY a thief even in a Buddha! But, a Buddha will see only a buddha even in the thief!!!
Remember this!
Work on getting back your peace of mind!
Take control of your thoughts and feelings!
You will come out of this as a more compassionate, understanding and strong person than ever before!!!
Lootna – to plunder, to exploit, leave one penniless
Gairon – not mine, others, stranger, outsider,
Apna – our own, kith and kin, dear person, ours,
Doobna – to sink
Kashthi – ship
Waheen – there
Paani – water
Jahan – where
Dam – dare, guts,
# on cheating, backstabbing, on being let down by our close family and friends, distrust and trust, love and trust, on relationships, toxic people, manipulative people, lies and dishonesty,
also go through old posts on similar topic: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/10/on-treating-enemy.html
Question addressed :
- How to process our thoughts and emotions about toxic people in your life?
- How to handle our emotions and feelings with manipulative people?
- How to view people who cheat, tell lies, manipulate, and are toxic and abusive in a relationship?
- How to treat and view ourselves when we are cheated by the one we love?
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