Expectations and
conditions
I did not write for the
last 3-4 days.
Look at the various
scenarios here.
Type A The Victim type:
You get your answer and relief especially during this Covid time through and in
this blog. So, you expect me to write daily. When I don’t you feel cheated, angry,
depressed, sad, confused and frustrated. And you think I am responsible for all these emotions
in you. You suffer
because of these emotions and so you believe I am responsible for these sufferings
in you.
Type B Sensible type:
You expect me to write so that you are motivated and being in sadhan. You are a
bit disappointed when you don’t find a new post from me but you have healed
yourself enough to put this too to good use. So you go to older posts and get a
better understanding of those posts than when you had read it when it was
posted. This way you are with my explanations. You also benefit with newer
understanding. And you also see the difference in your understanding and
celebrate that growth that happened because of healing. And with a smile you
say your gratitude to yourself for being consistent with your healing all these
years. You thank people and situations which forced you to experience
discomfort. Because you sat to heal all that creased discomfort in your life
then and lo! You reached here even without actually working for the same! You not
only healed those situations you have emerged as a stronger and more matured,
balanced person. Your smile acknowledges all this and you go back to healing
with renewed purpose, hope, joy and belief.
Contd.....
also reads on expectations and conditions : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=on+truth
Questions addressed :
- What is an expectation, condition and trust?
Points to understand :
- Situations don't make or break us. We use them to make or break us!
- Situation is real, suffering is optional!
- Expectation is not at fault. Our condition that 'it should be met' becomes the cause of our pain and suffering.
- Everything that hurts you needs to be healed. Period!
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