Saturday, July 23, 2022

Me, My Guru – On Hindrances in problem solving

 

Me, My Guru – On Hindrances in problem solving




Our Guru said “Don’t go around telling one and all about your problems. The more number of people you talk about your problem – be it your spouse, career or desire that much of negativity you create with regards to that issue. Result – longer it takes to heal that issue. So, if you want to heal an issue, reduce talking about it to as many people as you can. In fact, stop talking about it completely”.

“But we can’t ma’am. We need to tell at least few. We need to talk about our problems” said one among us. But that voice represented most of our thoughts.

“Then tell only 4 types of persons –

1. One who wouldn’t judge you for that

2. One who wouldn’t use it against you in future

3. One who supports you by understanding you and your problem – even if he can’t give you a solution

4. One who gives you a solution –

A. But this person shouldn’t have any personal agenda attached to your problem

B. This person should be impartial.

C. This person should have clarity of thought

D. He should have your good as the only thing in his agenda 

Contd....

# on talking about problems, consequences of talking about problems, karma, negativity generated, problems and solutions, healing the issue, finding solutions, life, beauty of life, facts of life, lessons of life, obstacles of life, life is not perfect

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/11/directing-our-energies-right-way.html 

Points to understand and remember :

  • Every one has his own set of problems. It's just that some take time to help others solve theirs inspite of having more problems in their own life!
  • Just because someone is smiling, happy or helping others doesn't mean he hasn't any problems. Don't be jealous of such people if you come across one such person. They have the ability to smile 'in spite of their problems' in their lives.
  • Talking about one's problems to one and all actually increases the the time period one has to live with it or in finding the solution.


 

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