Me, My Guru – Hiss, but don’t bite

 

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Me, My Guru – Hiss, but don’t bite

Pointers to understand this post:

“Today, we arrived a bit earlier than usual. We used that time to share our woes. Some just listened. Some gave advice. Some shared their experiences similar to ours.” – See here!! People arrived earlier than usual. They could have done some sadhan. They could have meditated. When you meditate in a group it is so easy to do. Moreover, the energy one gets is also huge. But, instead they stuck to gossiping around and that too what? Talking about the lame problems of their life – did they talk to find a solution – no!  We don’t talk to find a solution. 

Understand this correctly. Meditate on this! Don’t judge others. Don’t find examples in  your life to say ‘it is true maam’. See how you are dealing with your time and what you talk with others. Use time to meditate and overcome your disturbing emotions instead of talking about them and strengthening them!

“How can being soft work with our kids?” lamented Vidya. We all agreed with her. She did have a point. We all shared our sob stories.” – if you want solutions to your problems, work on it. understand it. meditate on it and find what is going wrong and what needs to be addressed. Be solution oriented. Your stories will be fun filled then.

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# me my Guru series, Buddha and the snake, hiss but not bite, be firm but gentle, 

also read suggested on this topic https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/05/bricks.html