When someone hurts........

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“In how many ways? Should be the right question” she said with a smile.

“As a reiki channel, the usual reaction or rather response should’ve been to heal the situation.  The big question is did you do it.  No.  you were probably lost in counting other’s flaws and concentrating on your sufferings.  A smart person works to remove the pain not glorify or concentrate on the cause of pain – here the other party – SIL/colleague!”

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1.  You can do emotional healing with the other to remove negative feeling that you are generating for the other.  And then see the miracle happen! But logic clouded healing because hatred argues “Why emotional healing with the person I hate or who is responsible for my pain?” But, you should’ve trusted healing and done that!

2.       You can do that even now – not less than for 3 months/ daily to actually see the results.  Don’t expect things to happen over night.


3  Next should’ve done intention healing saying “she is doing her part of work herself and I am doing only my part of work.”


4  If you had faith in reiki “you could’ve said ‘I believe this work was brought ot my by you and there must be greater good in that for me.  Give me clarity of thought to see it and acceptance to do this work happily.’

There are higher benefits you could’ve gained if you had –

5.       Seen it as an excuse to practice ‘doing swadharma’ and being a ‘karma yogi’ i.e., seeing every work as a form of worship and doing it as you are doing worship to the Lord.


6.       You can practice ‘detachment’ towards fruits of labour.


7.       Balanced person or yogi is one who is balanced both among friends and foe.  You could’ve practised to be peaceful in her presence – SIL who irritates you and worked towards your higher goal.

And yet, you chose suffering. You chose to develop ‘asura quality’ in yourself because of ‘her’.  So, she won! And there lies her victory. And you worked for her victory.  If you hadn’t been troubled or you had been unperturbed that would’ve been most painful for her and that would be the punishment meted on her by you – but instead you choose to work for her victory! And there lies your defeat!”

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