Monday, December 20, 2021

On taking decisions!


 On taking decisions!





Successful people take decisions based on "Where they want to be".

Others take decisions based on "their current situations".



What are the factors that control or affect how and what we decide? 

a.The current situations

b.Data available

c.fear - it can be fear of failure, fear of rebuke, fear of being left alone or any other fear

d.lack of confidence on self

e.lack of courage to face the outcome of our decisions

f.fear of challenges and strength to face them

g.ego


What are the factors, attitudes that help us take 'right' decisions?

a.Fearlessness of going wrong

b.Responsibility to take ownership of our decisions

c.Fear of outcome

d.Condition that everything should be smooth and comfortable

e.Confidence on self

f.Being independent

g.Strength to go ahead with 'right' decisions even if be alone 

h.flexibility to adapt as per requirement of the hour

i.humility 

Contd.....

# on taking decisions, regret and remorse, faults of past, ghosts of the past, problems and solutions, miracles, pain and suffering, on lessons of life, success and its ingredients, clarity of thought, everything happens for a reason, life is a teacher, situations of life and their reason to be

previous posts worth visiting : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/01/on-moving-forward.html  

and also


https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/11/on-taking-decisions_17.html 

read the complete post........




2 comments:

Swati said...

Hello,

A decision has to be taken. Though the issue is same ans arising again and again.
The post came at the right time.

Before taking a decision, or meditate on the same have started doing forgiveness meditation and working couple of attitudes. As it is said the same situation is arising because we are not able to learn from it. And then I will meditate and do surrender so things move smoothly.

Need your blessings for the same.

Regard
Swati

Aarthi said...

Hello mamm,i culd do my meditation,they were many thoughts,question ( i was just trying to b aware).

2)read a good msg ,( left happy ,this was msg got when i finished my meditation).mamm.
Events dont draw the path of life,rather the path of life is decided by the manner, we hold ourselves in tough times,the way we react in hard times,while v think of being better in the time of crisis.
One which has gone will never come back,but v have our life ,accept what you cannot change and look into future,it will b difficult at start,but we must do what needed to be done.

Retain what is good in u,and act upon it.