On taking decisions!

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On taking decisions!

The more we condition the outcome of our 'decisions' the less clarity of thought is available to us to take that 'right decision'. We want everything to go 'smooth' and trouble free and that's how we say if the decision is right or wrong. But we forget 'no decision' is completely 'problem free' - ever in life. Every decision comes with ups and downs of it's choice. We need to look into the fact 'is my decision based on my values and priorities of life or is it based on fear?'

Any decision based on values however difficulties it may end up giving us, there also comes a great strength with that decision that comes to us to face those difficulties...

Stop expecting a decision to give you 'happiness' only in life. That demand from that decision makes us assume that we could have been happier without that decision made in our life. It never is so - for any decision in life. 

The day we realize this simple Truth we would get healed of our fears and go ahead and live life to the fullest. We will have courage enough to face the challenges that our choices presents us with. Then it is all a part of game in our life. There are no regrets. There are no remorse. There is no pain and no suffering - at least with regards to our decisions made in the past. How beautiful and light would such a state of mind would be! How wonderful would that life be!

Think about it!!!

Concluded....

# on taking decisions, regret and remorse, faults of past, ghosts of the past, problems and solutions, miracles, pain and suffering, on lessons of life, success and its ingredients, clarity of thought, everything happens for a reason, life is a teacher, situations of life and their reason to be

previous posts worth visiting : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=On+desires+and+decisions+%E2%80%93+Me%2C+My+Guru+Crow%2C+Parrot+and+other+birds 

As always, read the link given in the date order to understand it better....

Healing suggested :

• Sit in meditation and find the cause of 'taking decisions'. Heal it with the required technique...
• Look at the expectations and conditions set on each decision. Take couple of them (from the past) and grow through expectations and conditions you had from each of such decisions. Know the basis of your expectations and conditions. Heal them.
• Do reiki before taking any decision. Then develop trust that whatever comes is for your good and work around that faith. 
• Stop going back to past and wanting to change that decision.
• The decision many times is not the problem. The lack of strength to face and accept the outcome of that decision is. Work on that!

What did you learn from this post?

How was it helpful?

Heal the required areas and come back after say a month and give the feedback....have a reminder to do the same....