Pro-active
or reactive!
How do
we know if we have healed well enough in any area of our life?
Very
simple! Just look at the way you respond when the situation rises in life. The
way you handle the person or the situation clearly reflects where you are with
regards to that attitude or emotion. Take any situation and look at it. Daily,
at night make it a point to go through the day’s events for 5-10mts and see how
you have addressed people and how you have handled the situations of that day.
If you have reacted, felt agitated, feared and were angry know you have lost
‘your balance’ in that particular situation. Accept that ‘your balance’ was
compromised by YOU. Don’t judge your actions saying ‘but, maam, she/he told/did
this….etc’. Let’s not talk about others ATALL here! Know you have ‘lost’
yourself today! Don’t beat yourself up for that. Don’t start “maam, I am
ashamed of myself or maam, I have let you down etc etc…”. Just REALIZE, KNOW
AND THEN ACCEPT that you have ‘lost yourself’ today! Just this much! Don’t add
“today also” before today in the above sentence. Read this 10 times and get it
straight.
“When
will my problem go away?”
“What
should I do to address my problem?”
“Why
do good people suffer?”
“Why
me?”
Contd....
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