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In
some rare cases, it is a possibility that one person takes, takes and takes
from the other and then also abuses for not giving more! In such cases, the
moment you realize you are being abused ‘QUIT’. No explanation given to anyone.
Don’t expect others to understand. Just ‘QUIT’. You owe yourself basic
self-respect. Don’t let ‘leech’ like relationship to suck life out of YOU! Just
QUIT. NOW! Don’t wait. However long and socially ideal relationship it may be –
just QUIT. And over and above that don’t let guilt weigh your spirit. Just
QUIT. And again I repeat, don’t expect others to understand. Your survival is of
paramount importance. Nothing else matters.
Many
times such decisions may be with relationship which is very close and very
basis of your existence. Yet if you realize the other sucking all of you, just
QUIT. That person could be your child, parent, sibling, friend, student or even
your master. Just leave! Don’t sit to analyse. But mind you, you should’ve
given your 100% to this relationship and that person should’ve only used and
abused you all through and now the last straw is also dropped. Time you move
on. Don’t think “friends since so long”, “how can I as a mother leave a child
or vice-versa”, master who exploits you and misguides you and used you to his
advantage – even though may be famous and powerful – leave.
Today,
we decided to bring lunch from outside as we found her bit occupied since
morning and Rahul had already volunteered to bring. He signaled me and we both
left to get lunch for all. We left without telling anyone and disturbing
anyone.
When
we came back, she was on the phone and I sat down as Shruti picked up packets
of food to look after serving.
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