Tuesday, November 22, 2016

Me, My Guru - On quitting!





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In some rare cases, it is a possibility that one person takes, takes and takes from the other and then also abuses for not giving more! In such cases, the moment you realize you are being abused ‘QUIT’. No explanation given to anyone. Don’t expect others to understand. Just ‘QUIT’. You owe yourself basic self-respect. Don’t let ‘leech’ like relationship to suck life out of YOU! Just QUIT. NOW! Don’t wait. However long and socially ideal relationship it may be – just QUIT. And over and above that don’t let guilt weigh your spirit. Just QUIT. And again I repeat, don’t expect others to understand. Your survival is of paramount importance. Nothing else matters.



Many times such decisions may be with relationship which is very close and very basis of your existence. Yet if you realize the other sucking all of you, just QUIT. That person could be your child, parent, sibling, friend, student or even your master. Just leave! Don’t sit to analyse. But mind you, you should’ve given your 100% to this relationship and that person should’ve only used and abused you all through and now the last straw is also dropped. Time you move on. Don’t think “friends since so long”, “how can I as a mother leave a child or vice-versa”, master who exploits you and misguides you and used you to his advantage – even though may be famous and powerful – leave.


Today, we decided to bring lunch from outside as we found her bit occupied since morning and Rahul had already volunteered to bring. He signaled me and we both left to get lunch for all. We left without telling anyone and disturbing anyone.


When we came back, she was on the phone and I sat down as Shruti picked up packets of food to look after serving. 


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