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            On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

e.      No wrong committed by us is ever forgotten by the Universe. It comes back in our life – maybe after 100 lifetimes – but it does. 

    in the case of DHRITARASHTRA – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/08/bhagavatam-krishna-answers-king.html

f.     Every act hides within it both positive and negative results. There is no act that has only good impact. So, even when good is done for others, the little harm done through the same returns to us and that is also to be borne by us. KUNTI CURSES KRISHNA https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/09/me-my-guru-bhagavatam-on-lost-city-of_02073380832.html

g.      When the act is done with the right intent and as per DHARM, then even the curse is used by the Divine to do some greater good. This same act or karma makes the person rise above the normal.

Our choices decide our fall or rise!

The right choice takes us towards our “Divine hood”.

h.     Nobody is above the “Law of Karma”

i.      With purity, simplicity and innocence, the impact of karma is reduced by the sadhak.

J.  The karma that binds is the “very thing” that frees us from all our karmas too!

k.    Being afraid of getting to face the consequences of our karma if we choose to “not act” – then even that comes under “karma”. We have to bear “that” consequence too! So, either way, we need to bear the consequences. Then why not learn to do karma in such a way that it becomes a way to redeem us of our ‘past karmas’?

l.     See carefully how a certain karma comes back in others’ lives. (But always remember Karma doesn’t come back the same way for everyone). We’ll see that a person’s wrong catches up with him – sooner than later. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/08/few-faqs-with-guru_20.html

So, we need not carry any grudge or wish that they be punished. Become free from seeking revenge. Walk towards peace. You deserve it if you are the one wronged!

Next, most important if some karma has come back in others’ lives, it would in ours too – for sure! So, when things don’t go or work our way – bear it with poise. Know it to be some past getting healed or catching up now. Use reiki techniques to reduce or mitigate the pain that comes to us bearing past karma.

Since every deed is limited in “portion size” bad times don’t last forever.

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# real life situations, karma, fate and destiny, you receive what you give, 

On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

 

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On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

Now coming to the first point – how karma impacts our lives and how it shapes our future – this case study is ‘practical lessons’ that we have taken from others’ lives. The Intelligent ones learn from their mistakes.

A wise man learns from others’ lives and mistakes.

And a fool thinks he doesn’t need to learn as he already knows it all!

How to understand these case studies:

1.    We are not here to judge others with these case studies. That’s why no name is given in these studies.

2.     My motto is not to malign their character or name. I would’ve given names if it was so! Many of these people are not even Reiki channels(RC). None of them you would meet in life. Such are the cases that are given to you – well, mostly.

3.     This exercise is not that you complain or malign or question some person’s acts or character

4.     By seeing how karma impacts or comes back into someone’s life, we’ll become more aware of how “The Law of Karma” works. Here I’ll point out a few points to you:

a.     Every wish comes true: it’s just that it may take janmas to be fulfilled. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/05/draupadi-mahabharata_11.html

b.     Our wish may come in any form – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/05/draupadi-mahabharata_11.html

c.      Even a small attitude will face its consequences accordingly – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=pandavas+and+dog

d.     The person with wrong intent even if blessed with the boon ends up meeting his doom because of it.

Boon in our case can be a post, position, material wealth, beauty and so on – BASMASURA https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my_26.html– 

REAL LIFE SITUATION https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/10/me-my-guru-working-of-karma-noted-in.html

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# real life situations, karma, fate and destiny, you receive what you give, 

Strength and weakness!

 

Strength and weakness!

There is a wonderful saying, “When a man falls for everything he stands for nothing!”

Remember that.

Understand that!

Know what you are falling for!

If we are running amok because of our senses day in and day out, then there is no way we’ll have strength enough to stand up for anything worth a dime. The pain and suffering that we face because of which is known to all. We are not weak because of someone’s curse. We are weak because we FALL FOR EVERYTHING THAT CATCHES OUR FANCY!

We are run by our senses and in that weakness lies our biggest problem.

Wake up!

Rule your senses to live life kingsize.

Let your senses run you and live a life of penury.

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

 

Read  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/11/me-my-guru-on-forgiveness-and-punishment.html and 

the previous post to know one more similar case. 

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

This case is similar to the previous post in more than a few ways. Our RC (Reiki channel) tagged (situation is so similar) along with her friend to an astrologer. Out of curiosity of her friend our RC’s astro chart was also read and the astrologer said “I am sorry. You must have had such a tough 7 years (and he gave a list of losses and sufferings that she had suffered). But don’t worry. If you start doing the Pooja that I tell you, things will work your way in just a year”.

Our RC was more than taken aback, surprised and relieved. She said “Thankyou Pandityji, but I faced none of the things that you mentioned”.

That Pandit was confused. He rechecked and he couldn’t accept that what the RC was telling was true.

This RC came to me and with eyes filled with gratitude said “Now my friends are confused as to how I escaped all this troubles?. Thank you for all the healing. Now I understand why you insisted that I visit you regularly all these years and sit in sadhan along with a few others who too would be for similar reasons.

Few more words were shared. But that again is immaterial here. So moral of the story:

In both cases, they had their astro-chart to tell their destiny. They had their reality that was way away from ‘destiny’! This proves how healing heals our karma.

But that doesn’t mean Reiki, me or God are answerable to your demands and accusations.

Reiki decides how to heal, how much to heal and what and when to give. We can just do Reiki – not condition it with our expected results.

Both had similar ‘grace healing experience’ and yet one’s attitude was well, you name it whereas the other was filled with gratitude.

Our response to the result of healing is the seed of the karma that we plant and its fruit we eat at a later date. When we plant trees we are filled with ego, arrogance, stubbornness and a feeling of entitlement. But, when the time comes to bear the consequences, we are terrified. Then we want ‘grace’ and Guru working her magic. Our attitude is our curse. It is our blessing. It depends upon how we use it. Be aware of it and make it so pure that it becomes our “Sri Rama Raksha”.

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# karma, destiny and fate, healing its impact, ego, surrender, trust, faith, grace, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/a-blessing-or-curse.html 

What are the understanding, observations and experiences you had on this topic...

share if you care....

Karma healed – in the real life situations

 

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Karma healed – in the real life situations

A huge lorry from nowhere came and rammed our car. They both were shaken. They cancelled the trip and came back. Now, my question to you is when I had done Reiki as told by you, why did our car get hit so badly?”

Most of the students accuse me or Reiki in the guise of “asking doubts”. This reflects their ingratitude, lack of clarity to perceive right and some more wonderful attitudes that if said would hurt the one concerned.

Here:

a.Life was saved and yet there is no gratitude. Of course, the sentence would start as “Yes, yes, I am grateful but…..”

NO, YOU ARE NOT GRATEFUL HERE – know this once and for all!

b.Even driver was not hurt.

c.One who was to die or be in a vegetative state for the rest of his life did not have a scratch on him and yet – only demanding explanation??!!(REALLY????)

d.There was a small tea stall and a tree where the car broke. If this is not ‘grace beyond measure’ – what is?

Let’s understand karma and destiny – see healing does heal our karma. Use sadhan required to heal the particular situation. For some, one week of healing gives results and to some it takes 10 years. And others anywhere in between.

If you desire, heal till the desire is fulfilled – however long. No one is answerable just because you are desperate for your wish to come true!

The event may still happen, but the karma will be reduced considerably by healing. Do not cry for the the car gone.

Well, this was my reply for the car “You’ve been complaining about this car since a year. Go and buy a brand new car with insurance money”.

This lady was the one who changed cars almost every year. So, where was the loss?

Such is the power of healing.

Such is the Grace of the Divine.

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Read the next post to know one more similar case.

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# real life karma healing, healing and its effect on our karma, karma, destiny and fate, ego, ingratitude, attitude, pain and suffering, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my_27.html 

I am not giving 'pointers to understand' in this topic as I felt it was very clear and self-evident.

In case you didn't understand anything ask...but before read the links given...most of your questions are answered there already....

So, what did you understand till now about healing and its impact on our fate and destiny?

Me, My guru – working of Karma noted in a real-life situation!

 

In continuation of ...........https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/09/me-my-guru-working-of-karma-noted-in.html 

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Me, My guru – working of Karma noted in a real-life situation!

Our Guru continued with explaining how karma dealt with people giving us some case studies. "II case: In a certain family, the eldest son was not liked by anyone except the father. So, when the father died, they made him sign a will relinquishing his rights. Years rolled by. His mother suffered multiple surgeries and was bedridden for 2 years. Her daughter whom she considered the whole world didn’t come to even see her once. Her second son at 70 yrs is working to run the family. All the riches washed away faster than they received. They experienced only poverty. What’s the use of usurping others' rights? You’ll end up not being able to enjoy a penny of it.

Such are the cases and many more too! Whenever I see, if I wait for 10-20 years, I see karma coming back. People pay back. Some realize and repent. Many don’t. those who repent change for the better. Their attitudes get transformed and they would’ve developed some very good divine qualities and lost or diluted their asuric nature. Others who don’t realize this suffer more and more.

They become more bitter and amass so much negativity from people in their lives. They become so lonely. They lived in hell! Because they don’t realize karma doesn’t get healed or exhausted in spite of having faced the consequences. They sow more karma with resentment and bitterness. The vicious cycle continues and that is ‘living in hell endlessly’! 

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# me, my guru series, karma, you receive what you give, fate and destiny, destiny, as you sow so you reap, everything happens for a reason, 

read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my_27.html 

read the complete link to understand many aspects of karma....

come back with your understandings, observations and your feelings...

what did you understand from the case study?

On Comment: further to https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/09/me-my-guru-working-of-karma-noted-in_0700808946.html?showComment=1728390305654 comment of Mona, this post addresses that question......

also read https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/04/mahabharata.html the complete link to get the answer .......

others can share your experiences and observations if any on same.....

Me, My guru – Little Patridges and the mighty Ocean – Bhagavatham!

 

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Me, My guru – Little Patridges and the mighty Ocean – Bhagavatham!

There is good news though here. We have an other option – a better option. We can choose to come out of our suffering. For this, we have to first accept that what the other person has done reflects who he is and not us. We can’t change them. Even in future, we can’t change the way the other person behaves with us. But, we can work on ourselves. We can choose not to let their actions impact us. We can heal our conditioning, belief systems, expectations, and ego. This would finally make it easy for us to make the right choices again and again till we master our emotions and our responses.

The person who cheats, defames, deceits or hurts us may be powerful like that Mighty Ocean. Power can be that which comes with money, post, status or even by way of age. Power also comes to a person when he is close to us emotionally too! That is the most ‘powerful’ of all powers. This power makes the person most powerful. Because, we find it easy to fight a war with an outsider, but to have even an argument with a family member drains us of our energy! Now imagine, we have to wage a war against our relatives. That is the level of weakness Arjuna faced in the Kurukshetra war.

Such situations and people that we need to fight against are no doubt powerful. We feel weak and helpless. But, if we like that patridge couple decide to keep up our side of fighting against the wrong-doer, will no doubt win the war – eventually! Even God will be on our side. If we are not ready to fight our battle, how will God come to our aid? So, is it not stupid on our part to curse God for not coming to our aid? Think about it!

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# bhagavatham, patridge and the ocean, destiny and fate, resolve, intent, determination, breakdown situations and break through situations, Me my guru,

read also https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my.html 

read the complete link to understand that no person can get away from facing the effects of his evil deeds - no, not even with his boon that he gets from Lord Shiva himself.....

Me, my Guru – Bhagavatam – Bhaktha Prahlad and Hiranyakashyap

 

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Me, my Guru – Bhagavatam – Bhaktha Prahlad and Hiranyakashyap

If and when our love for the Divine knows no reason or season, then it makes us pure and innocent from within. Those are essential qualities that ‘moves mountains’ – through faith. Faith is just not a word. It is a state of existence of a ‘bhaktha’ where he becomes transformed into his object of love and exhibits the same qualities of the Divine – purity, innocence and love!

Hiranyakashyap was drunk so much with anger that it clouded his clarity. He couldn’t even see that he was trying to harm and kill his own and only son who was just a 7 year old kid! That’s how blinded we become with ego and anger. However powerful Hiranyakashyap was, still Prahlad was saved every single time because of his unwavering bhakthi and devotion for the God – Lord Vishnu. The same devotion when someone has for the demon, the results wouldn’t be the same – remember that. Only when the bhakthi is for the Divine will it give such results.

Being a sadhak, bhaktha or having faith doesn’t mean we’ll not have tough situations in life. We still may face cruel people in our lives. But, if we stick to sadhan, hold fast to our aradhya (Image of our beloved God), then it will protect us against all perils of this World and other too!

When a bad person does wrong then their karma comes as a curse and the punishments in their life. It causes them pain and suffering. It binds them to this World further.

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# Me my Guru series, Prahlad and Hiranyakashyap, Bhagavatam, Bhaktha and samsari, materialistic and spiritual person, devotee, devotion, God protects those who trust him, God's grace, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2022/05/affection-and-courage_0290372244.html 

and 

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/03/me-my-guru-on-ways-to-hurt-others.html

Me, My guru – Bhagavatam - On the lost city of Dwaraka!

 

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Me, My guru – Bhagavatam - On the lost city of Dwaraka!

So, coming to Krishna’s curse – our Lord accepted it. he used it to annihilate the ‘adharm’ that had gone beyond the ‘corrective measure’ limit. This way, Yadavas brought about their complete annihilation. There was a huge flood  - a la’ tsunami that submerged Dwaraka and all its inhabitants. Both the curses were put to good use!

So you see, when a curse comes upon a wrongdoer it brings his downfall. He pains him and he suffers.

Whereas, when ‘the right’ is cursed (Lord Krishna in this case) it is turned to put the Divine plan in motion.

Lord himself gave shape to the idea and growth of Dwaraka. Yet, when the time came, HE let it be destructed for the larger good!

Similarly, we can only plan for creative, productive and constructive tomorrows. We can work for the same too! But, we can NEVER decide the course it takes in the future. Do your duty. But, don’t be bent on the way it shapes up tomorrow. Be it your child, family, relationships, career or anything.

Be right. Give your best shot – only that is within our reach. Nothing more! The rest depends on the children’s attitudes and destiny. Don’t assume you can control it. Teach them right. But to walk on it is their choice. You can’t do anything there. Be detached on that!”

Having said this, our Guru just closed her eyes and sat down for sometime. Sometime later, she just got up and left.

Today, we didn’t open our mouths. We didn’t question her.

She came, talked, taught and left.

We came, sat, listened and received answers to questions unasked and left!

We didn’t know who was luckier – us or her??!!

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# Me My Guru series, Bhagavatam, Krishna accepts the curse, destruction of Yadavas, the lost city of Dwaraka, curse and blessings, fate and destiny, karma, as we sow so we reap, cause and effect, 

also read suggested  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/03/gods-role-in-life-of-people-who-believe.html

 

This was a long post covering various aspects. If each one of you can give out what you understood, you’ll finally (all of yours put together) get the summary of all the important points in this post. Whether you want to work for it or let it slide is up to you.

This post is a treasure trove of knowledge and answers to our various problems, pain and suffering! Now, it is up to you to dig deep and gather as much as you deserve these!

Questions addressed:

How does the curse impact when it is given to the person who hasn’t wronged?

Why God doesn’t intervene in natural calamities?

Why God doesn’t stop bad or evil from happening?

Why does destruction wreak havoc on certain places? Why do even children and invalids suffer in such places? Who is responsible for all that?

We all want EVIL to be punished. When the evil’s time to face its karma comes, we talk of “God, grace, humanitarian reasons’ and so on. Can we see the EVIL suffering?

How to safeguard our dear one’s future? Can we?

Can one curse God? Do we have the power to curse God?

Why did the city of Krishna, Dwaraka submerged in the Sea?