A blessing or a curse!
Every event or a person we encounter remain our "assumed blessing or a curse" only till we go to our next stop in life.
Many times, they seem to interchange - for good or for worst, we don't know and yet they do - mostly!
So, do we treat a situation or a person as a curse or a blessing?
One way would be to leave that 'label' for good number of years so that we let life complete its few rounds and then fall back on our interactions to understand them if they were curse or blessing...
One more way to deal with would be to have a "right attitude" to turn a curse into a blessing and to be grateful for the blessing and not later regret that it happened when the same became "the curse"....this way we would be going from one blessing to the other........
and what converts blessing into curse and vice-versa - our expectations from them at that point of time and the effect it has on us...we are more "defination" oriented people and that if removed would heal most of our suffering....for eg. when we run temperature we think we are suffering and we shouldn't be falling sick. We are good people doing good and right things and these things shouldn't happen to us. It is slowly our work or we are not able to fulfill our "target agendas" whatever that be....
but...if we understand and see fever and our body correctly - yes, i repeat correctly fever means our immune system is working perfectly right and it is fighting the 'bad virus or bacteria or whatever alien' to our system and trying to kill them for us.......so this good is actually seen as bad and we keep suffering our 'bad fate' and pitying ourselves, being angry with Reiki, Gurus, God etc.....but our desire and prayer was to keep us healthy! if that be so, this is right?! Then why are we complaining?
Which is the curse?
and which is the blessing?
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