Tuesday, December 3, 2024

Me, My guru – On duties, responsibilities and results

 



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Me, My guru – On duties, responsibilities and results




Pundarika even without turning still replied, “So the parental service has such power that you had to come even though uncalled?”

Lord said, “Yes, parental service has such power”.

Pundarika replied, “If parental service has such power, how can I leave it? At present I am busy. Better come some other time”.

Lord then came in front of Pundarika and said, “I am pleased with your bhakthi for your parents. I was testing you. Ask for any boon”.

Pundarika said, “Whatever flaw is there in my devotion towards my parents, let it be made good. As you said this is the highest service, I don’t ask for anything else.”

Lord blessed him and decided to stand on that brick as a mark of his appreciation.

God is not “egotist” as many ASSUME. He is not “narcist, greedy or selfish’ either wanting everyone to love ONLY HIM!  He appreciates and becomes bound to love – be it expressed to anyone whole-heartedly.

When we serve our parents because we need them – be it physically, emotionally or financially – we may receive what we desire in exchange for our “service”, but we can’t expect love, respect or moksha in exchange for that service. If we desire to get a “good child” tag in exchange for what we do to our parents, we may get it too, but our karma can’t be healed in such a barter arrangement.

Our service was in exchange for something of this World, it is business. And whose karma gets healed doing business?

Since karma is not healed, what you need to face as per destiny can’t be done away with. So, you’ll face problems in spite of servicing your parents.

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# me my guru series, Punarika and Vithobha, Pandaripur, service to parents, service, patience, detachment, mindfulness, bhakthi, love, parental duties, devotion, 

read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/06/be-right-parent-not-good-one.html

 

Monday, December 2, 2024

Me, My guru – On duties, responsibilities and results

 


Me, My guru – On duties, responsibilities and results




“Guruji, I serve my parents well and yet why do I suffer so much? Did you not say that one who gets to serve his parents is the one doing service of the greatest order? If I am doing ‘the greatest service’ how come I still have problems in life?” I asked as she was sipping her tea. This was break-time. And I used it to pose my question to her.

My Guru answered me with this story.


“In modern times that is this Kaliyuga in the banks of river Candrabhaga in Pandharpur lived a devotee named Pundarika. In this town, we still find the images of his parents and Pundarika. Pundarika took a vow to devote his life to serving his parents. One day he was giving oil massage to the tired legs of his parents. It was their bedtime. Lord Pundarika came uninvoked and stood behind him and said “Pundarika, I am God. I have come to see you”.


Even without turning around Pundarika pushed a brick and replied “Welcome Lord! Please stand on that brick lest your feet get dirty with mud (as it was monsoon season).”

Lord said “But Pundarika, I am the Lord of this Universe. I have come to meet you. And you don’t have time to meet me?”

Pundarika replied “Lord, can’t you see that I am now serving my parents. I am busy serving my parents. Please tell me why you came now.”


Lord said, “I am pleased with your parental devotion and have come to give darshan to you”.

Pundarika even without turning still replied, “So the parental service has such power that you had to come even though uncalled?”

Lord said, “Yes, parental service has such power”.

Pundarika replied, “If parental service has such power, how can I leave it? At present I am busy. Better come some other time”.

Contd....

# me my guru series, Punarika and Vithobha, Pandaripur, service to parents, service, patience, detachment, mindfulness, bhakthi, love, parental duties, devotion, 

read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/12/on-raising-kids-me-my-guru.html 


Sunday, December 1, 2024

Target for December 2024

 


Target for December 2024




What is the target you have set for December 2024?

What are your personal targets?

What are your material targets?

What emotions/attitudes would you be aware of and work this month?

What is your sadhan target?

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