Sushant singh Rajput

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Sushant singh Rajput

With the talent Sushant had, he could’ve done anything with his life – taught dance, become a lecturer (he’s qualified well), go into science field – well scope for such men of letter are many! But ‘one condition’ unmet clouds our ‘clarity of thought’ takes a toll on our ‘muladhara’ thereby pushing us towards depression and ultimately suicide and death.

How people in Industry treated him is unpardonable but we can’t overlook the fact that ‘one precious life was wasted, his family lost him forever’ just because of his misplaced expectations, conditions and self-worth.

                                

When we rest all our happiness and self-worth on some ‘condition’ of a situation or a person in life, our emotions go berserk and create havoc with our psyche.

                                                  

Now, do you understand why we need to work on these qualities in us? Now, can you see how they like termites make us ‘hallow’ from within over the period of time. And then, one small breeze is enough to bring us down!

Heal – not for some material benefit. Heal not to gain or enjoy some relationship. Heal that you are balanced enough to look at options when life or people close doors on the path that you are walking. Heal, so that you are strong enough to embrace other options. Heal to develop patience when nothing seems to go your way. Heal for you to realize that just existence is worth a celebration. Heal to know that all people, relationships and things of the world are here for your experience – your existence is not dependent on them!

                              

Heal so that you stop being a sissy. Stop wanting to be pampered and being made special by someone! Stop wanting to be taken care of! Grow up! If you desire like an adult, behave as one! How can you be a whiny baby if you wish to experience life as an adult? Even by your ‘logic’ is it not illogical and basically stupid?

Chin up, spine erect face the world like a man! If you want to be respected, then earn it. Be worthy of it! You can’t earn someone’s respect by being desperate. You get pity when you beg. But, is not pity for the invalids? Are you one?

                             

Think about it!

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Please Note: This article was written when it was assumed that the said actor committed suicide. It was later found that he was murdered. Still, the article holds good for the "suicidal tendencies, depressions and related mental problems". Whether he committed suicide or he was murdered doesn't make a difference in the way we need to look at 'emotions that drive us crazy'.

The news was used ONLY to put forth a point - not to point fingers at the actor. When we hardly know a person, how can we judge his actions? 

But, we can look at our own emotions that are similar to his perceived self to correct them.!!!! And that exactly was done here!

And as to why someone is murdered or why a person chooses death in a particular fashion read articles on karma, destiny, how we attract situations in our life, why Dhritarashtra had to face his karma 50 janmas after his committing the same....

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=differentiation 

# suicide, depression, break down situations, failures and success in life, disturbing emotions, disturbing pattern of life, on being lost, disciplined mind, material success, karma, why we attract what we attract in our life, 

Answer these questions if you have understood : 

• How filled is your cup?
• What is your cup filled with?
• What do you plan to empty yourself of?
• When and which is the point in life which says "No more moves possible - time to end it"?
• Does suicide end our problems?
• Is death end of all our problems?
• Does crying solve our issues?
• If begging is all we have in the name of faith, is it worth it? Will it serve any purpose?