Me, my Guru – on healing servants, maids and helpers

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Me, my Guru – on healing servants, maids and helpers 

And today I thought my day would go waste! See, I also understood how to address my issues. But the solution was same for all. I had issues with my juniors, colleagues, higher ups, family, friends and even my boss. I always was frustrated and angry at them because of them. Now I could take one or two persons/issues at a time and start healing to be relieved of my pain.

Even I am surprised that I didn’t ask “but why should I heal all of them maam? I am bored of healing. Don’t I have a life of my own? Where do I live it if I end up only healing others?”

She had once given answer “You are NOT HEALING others. You are healing YOUR issues – thereby easing your life. You are able to live happily and you can live peacefully only when these issues/people are addressed. So what life would you live with your suffering if they are not healed? If, you have a dog, would you complain about wasting time in ‘potty training’ it? No! because you know if you don’t then you’ll end up cleaning its shit behind it for the rest of your life. So the little time used in training your dog is actually small investment in making your future less cumbersome. Similarly with these people or issues. Anything that irritates you, annoys you, angers you means you need to heal it for your life to go smoothly. “That time I walked out angrily. I didn’t understand her concern for me. I didn’t see the logic in the solution that she suggested to me. But today I did.

No wonder even after being with her since two decades we still had to ask her simple questions like how to deal with the maid issues………till the day we stop being adamant of wanting things our way we would suffer and be the cause of pain for others. Till the day we were stuck with our way of thinking we would hurt her inspite of all her efforts to make us come out of our suffering.

Till the day we understand, accepted that we need to heal our every fear, anger, desire, pain, hatred, expectations etc we would be creating world filled with these energies only!

What we were inside became incidents and events in the outside world! It’s time we wake up to this fact………. 

Concluded.... 

# challenges of life, problems and solution, everything happens for a reason, break down or break through situations, life is not perfect, change is inevitable

also on this topic: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=butterfly


Food for thought : 

• Life is not perfect
• situation is real suffering is optional
• Every change in life is either break down situation or a break through situation. 
• Our response makes it so!
• If we are breaking down with every unwarranted small incident in our life then it could mean we are very weak from within. 
• Time to build up that strength - mental strength that will make every problem in life as a challenge that we are eager to face.
• Our anger many times could be a result of our weakness which we are not aware of.
• go within and check that strength meter!
• If caterpillar found being chrysalis to be a problem then it would never emerge as a butterfly