On Guru’s
grace – Me, My Guru
Today’s lunch session was so animated because of all the chatter. But we found Vinay calm and non-participating. Rahul asked him the reason. He grumpily answered “since 3 months I am asking for a class. And I came to meet her and see she’s not there”.
“Did she ask you to come and meet her?” asked Rahul
“What?” asked Vinay.
“Did she our Guru give you an appointment for today?” asked Rahul.
“No. I didn’t call her or take an appointment” replied Vinay.
“And yet YOU ARE ANGRY at her for not being here to meet you?” Rahul’s question was loaded with sarcasm and he stressed “You are angry” to point-out that it was Vinay’s fault and yet he was being angry at her!
“But as a Guru she’s supposed to be here to meet up with us” replied Vinay with a demanding tone.
“You stay alone don’t you?” questioned Rahul.
“Yes, I do” replied Vinay confused.
“So your friends will cater to their needs on their own in your house? Questioned Rahul.
Contd......
# ego, relationships, love, expectations, reality, misunderstandings, demands and expectations, pain in relationship, suffering
On similar topic suggested reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=expectations
Points to ponder and questions answered:
- When an expectation is not met, how many times we have put the complete blame on to the other?
- What is the cause of our suffering in our relationships?
- Can pain in a relationship be totally done away with ? if so how?
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