On waiting , desiring and having!

On waiting , desiring and having!


Everyone desires!

Everyone waits!

And most have what they desire eventually!

If what you want is not out of love you will eventually grow out of it. If you get it after the stipulated time and you have lost interest in it, know it never was out of love. It was just greed, want and lust based. It wasn't love in the first place!

If you loved someone ever, you can never outgrow them. You can never feel you are glad they are not part of your life when you meet them few years down the line. You wouldn't thank God for making you 'miss them' ever! You do all this only if it was not 'love' in the first place. It was crush! It was lust. It was desire. It was infatuation. But it never was love in the first place!

One who knows to love is never capable of hating anyone. Not even the circumstances that keep him away from the object of his love.

And to love you don't need to have a person. It flows as a 'feeling' that blesses everyone who comes their way. It flows as a good will and help for everyone. It flows as a gesture to alleviate others pain and suffering wherever one comes across that!

When someone is counting 'money' wasted in feeding colleagues, friends and people in his life, know he is not capable of love. And one who can't love can never get it for sure! 

If it (love) can't express itself as concern, being happy in others success and wellness then how can it exist in the first place?

Only a person who has love in him can attract love in his life....others just have partners with whom they have expectations, demands and complaints......

# love, waiting, life, relationships, right person, soulmate

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=love

Points to understand/ponder and questions answered :

• Why we suffer the person and relationship inspite of having waited for him and the relationship to happen often?
• Where is the difference between lust and love?
• How to be happy in a relationship that we desire to have and experience?
• The basis of every relationship is "intention" and the "emotion" that we bring into it. People always confuse their wants,needs and lust as love and suffer in life and its choices.
• Change the way you operate and learn to celebrate life.
• Work on yourself as you wait for things to happen in life so that you actually enjoy 'what you want' when you 'get it' in life.