On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru

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On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru 

“Oh, she’s money-minded!” there was so much of disgust in Vinay’s voice.

“What would benefit her by way of money? Taking class immediately when you ask or at a much later date?” asked Rahul.

“Immediately” replied Vinay.

“Then if she is really money-minded as you say she is she would’ve taken class immediately. As that would give her money” but she is postponing or not arranging for one itself says she is not money-minded. Right?”

Vinay didn’t have an argument there. So he asked “Then why is she not taking class?” Rahul just did not attend classes, he was in sadhan regularly and over and above that he was working on his way of thinking and himself over the years and that could be seen the way he was dealing this issue and very commendable!

“I can think of umpteen reasons.

She is busy with other classes which she always is.

She is not well

She is busy in/with personal life

The dates – hers and yours are not in sync – i.e., the days she can take and you can attend” replied Rahul.

“Oh! My God! I didn’t know there were so many reasons!” replied Vinay. 

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#  misunderstanding, love, relationship, awareness, knowing self, basis of fear, lack of love, basis of anger, irritation, assumptions, communication, unhappiness, pain and suffering

Questions answered :

• What is the basis of pain and suffering in all relationships?
• What is the basis of misunderstanding in relationships?
• What is the basis of assumptions?
• What is miscommunication?

Points to understand and apply :

• Importance of communication in a relationship
• Know the area of pain and go to the source of it rather than find a victim on whom we can pin the cause of our pain (నీబాధ  యొక్క కారణనే తెలుసుకొని దాన్ని heal చేసుకో. అంతే కానీ ఇతరులను కారణమని అపోహలో కృంగి పోకు )
• if you are angry it is better to tell that you are rather than sulk and carry it for ever in yourself and then bring it out at some inappropriate time and on some other person
• understand the importance of healing our day to day psychic impressions like irritation, conditions and anger 
• how many times we presume the other person's intentions and cause of actions and jump to conclusions
• give benefit of doubt to other person's act and words - may be they didn't mean to hurt us at all......

also reads suggested : 

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=my+window+was+dirty

Regarding Healing!

Regarding Healing!

ONLY PEOPLE WHO HAVE AGREED TO CONTINUE WITH GROUP HEALING WILL BE INCLUDED FROM TOMORROW'S SESSIONS!

As per your request and feedback we'll continue with this healing routine till April 14th as of now.....will continue depending upon your feedback and your office routine then.......

those who have sent me a mail regarding continuation of group healing  send the same to blog and not to mail ....

i hope i don't have to repeat the timings it goes on as before .....

just one addition as per your request let us all go with MM Japam......most of you are doing chanting even during the pooja time. So each one of us can easily complete 10 malas of MM Japam . More done would be good too!

You can do the same during -
1. light circle
2. japam
3.pooja (those who are not doing pooja can chant MM during that time)

you can be sending reiki to Mother Earth too while chanting MM Japam during any of the above mentioned times...

But during 1-2 noon meditation slot do meditations that were taught to you........

regarding healings

regarding healings

tomorrow is the last day as per our schedule of this healing........unless i get your feedback and desire to continue with the same i'll not continue with this schedule...

get back to me with your feedbacks and intention to be with this schedule if you want to continue doing the same throughout this quarantine period i.e., till 14th April.......

Clarification regarding healings!

Clarification regarding healings!

During 1-2 slot no hands on should be done.......

ONLY what is given below can be done - i repeat anything apart from that CAN NOT BE DONE!

During 1-2 slot meditation slot - you can

• Preferably sit in meditation
• do MM japam sending reiki to Mother Earth 

Don't know to send reiki to Earth/ forgotten to do Earth healing / any other confusion - simply Chant MM Japam - just chant with reiki on - that's all - no need to say any intention / or direct it any where ----- i repeat SIMPLY CHANT MM JAPAM

2. Meditation : You can do any of the meditations taught to you. You can do one after the other too.... 

simply sit in silence and meditate

I have highlighted the above explanation to tell that it is very clearly told in the previous posts on this topic........read the posts more than once it is clearly given. 

As already told you complete all the meditations taught to you one after the other - like green fire ball, let go etc depending upon your degree......take out your reiki notes......note down all the meditations taught to you......do after the other in  that slot and that way you have revised all the old meditations also......

you need not do the same meditation daily...

you can do 3-4 meditation per day and that would complete your 1 hour slot.......

On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru

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On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru

“But why would my friends be there if I am not at home?” asked Vinay confused.

“So there’s no one at home? Then what if your friends turn up now at your place. Have you left the door open for them?” enquired Rahul.

“What nonsense! Why would they come without informing me first? And if they do they have to leave as I am not there. I am no fool to keep my doors open for them or leave keys for them” answered Vinay.

“What if they get angry at you not being at home?” enquired Rahul.

“It’s their fault! They came without informing me. How can they expect me to be there waiting for them?” replied Vinay irritated now.

“Exactly! You too came without calling. And yet you are angry at her! Can’t you see the facts to be the same in both these situations and yet you are angry at her for not being here. As if she is wrong!”

Vinay felt cornered and didn’t like this simple comparison. He immediately found one more reason to be angry at her – our Guru!

“But she is not taking class for me since 3 months. Why is she doing this to me? Why is she postponing the benefit? I wish to benefit from this class?” he asked.

Rahul replied calmly “What do you think could be the reason?”

Contd...... 

# ego, expectations, relationships, love, pain, suffering, perception, demands in a relationship

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=window 

Points to understand and understanding worth taking home :

• Are we communicating to the loved ones our feelings especially displeasure or just blaming them for what they do and don't do?
• When we communicate are we just giving them commands or are we explaining our point of view and preferences and their reasons?
• When we say we 'told' are we just pointing fingers at their mistakes or explaining what is bothering us?
• Can we talk without shouting and judging when things are not going in our favour?

On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru

On Guru’s grace – Me, My Guru

Today’s lunch session was so animated because of all the chatter. But we found Vinay calm and non-participating. Rahul asked him the reason. He grumpily answered “since 3 months I am asking for a class. And I came to meet her and see she’s not there”.

“Did she ask you to come and meet her?” asked Rahul

“What?” asked Vinay.

“Did she our Guru give you an appointment for today?” asked Rahul.

“No. I didn’t call her or take an appointment” replied Vinay.

“And yet YOU ARE ANGRY at her for not being here to meet you?” Rahul’s question was loaded with sarcasm and he stressed “You are angry” to point-out that it was Vinay’s fault and yet he was being angry at her!

“But as a Guru she’s supposed to be here to meet up with us” replied Vinay with a demanding tone.

“You stay alone don’t you?” questioned Rahul.

“Yes, I do” replied Vinay confused.

“So your friends will cater to their needs on their own in your house? Questioned Rahul. 

Contd......

# ego, relationships, love, expectations, reality, misunderstandings, demands and expectations, pain in relationship, suffering

On similar topic suggested reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=expectations


Points to ponder and questions answered:

• When an expectation is not met, how many times we have put the complete blame on to the other?
• What is the cause of our suffering in our relationships?
• Can pain in a relationship be totally done away with ? if so how?

Me, my Guru – on epidemics

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Me, my Guru – on epidemics

She knew if we put our ‘fear filled’ days to good use, we can actually heal our karmas and thereby benefit in more ways than one for sure!

I had attended many of her classes and now I could put them together to understand her answers – correctly. This is ‘clarity of thought!’ that we received thanks to healing.

Not like someone used it to justify his anger, hatred as result of ‘understanding’ that he received from her. That was for other day!

                                                     

Today, I just started healing my fears. Strangely I thanked the epidemic too for it propelled me more towards healing than before and that certainly was good on so many accounts.

I smiled at my understanding. I thanked her for this possibility. I felt I owed her more now for all the troubles she took to bring me till here and I promised myself to pay her – atleast a part of what I owed her in material wealth tomorrow! 

Concluded....

Also reads suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=life

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=parikshit

Points worth taking home :

• Instead of cribbing, fearing the possibility of death and disease, is it not useful and helpful to live life while it lasts?
• Why are we using all our 'life moments' in finding fault with people in our lives?
• Why are we always behind amassing wealth and materials when all we need is so little?
• Why are we postponing using and enjoying things that we invest/spend on?
• Why is living life always in future when 'something' happens in our life like a job/career/house/child etc etc?
• So this way even a life of 1000 years would mean nothing but painful.....
• learn to live, love, laugh, play, relax, enjoy ..........your last 20-30-40 years just passed away - so will the rest of your 80-70-60 years of your life.....
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Note : Further to your comment https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/03/in-funeral-short-story.html?showComment=1585305915383#c2265988374027743676

i never see it as you people bothering me with your fwrds or writing etc....but yes i do answer in a very crisp (gattiga) way so that you get the point - 

my job is not be liked by you  you have whole lot of people in your life for that.....my job is to make you see 'the problem area' in the way you are using words, expressing them, attitudes, choices in life, flaws in your priorities and much more.....so that you live those relationships in your life to the fullest. 

portion is vast and time little for me....so i use every opportunity to point that out. 

everytime you communicate if there is a mistake i show it to you not because it bothers me - but because that is one of the 'pegs' in the wheel of your life which is causing problem in your life.......

i know i come across as blunt and harsh many times may be every time.......and honestly  i am not even sorry about that......i do it knowingly and i want to see results in you and see it reflect in your character and life......

my anger (as you think of it or see it) is not personal but issue based (vyakthi tho naaku ee problem ledu mee vyakthithvam lone na corrections untundi - వ్యక్తి తో నాకు ఏ మాత్రం ప్రాబ్లెమ్ లేదు కానీ వ్యక్తిత్వం లోనే నా corrections ఉంటుంది )

what do i do you didn't read statutory warning "this package (called revathi) comes with this side effects ).......so be rest assured i am not angry with any of you........

but still i'll be correcting you people as long as you interact with me.....

Me, my Guru – on epidemics

Me, my Guru – on epidemics

“Guruji, I am afraid of dying.  I think world is coming to an end. The epidemics are the proof that my fear is true. I don’t want to die. Save me Guruji” enquired Aarthi with her voice shaking.

“Then sit and heal the whole day long” replied our Guru.

That answer sounded like nectar to our fear soaked souls!

“Then I won’t die?” asked Aarthi half relieved.

“If entire world is going to end then what ever you do can’t save you from dying” replied our Guru.

“Then why heal ?” asked someone confused and irritated.

“So that you are peaceful as you die” she replied with a mischievous smile.

                                   

“How can someone smile so casually when and where everyone is afraid of death?” that was the question that many asked that day.

But I knew now. I knew she could because she was free of conditions and expectations that we usually have from life. And as many thought she wasn’t even referring to ‘physical death’ here. Elsewhere she had explained how Parikshit sought Sage Suka’s company when he knew he was cursed to die in just 7 days. He became ‘enlightened’ as he heard ‘Bhagavam’ recitation through his Guru Sage Suka’s mouth. In short fear of physical death wanted him to put his remaining days to good use and lo! He was freed of death once and for all as he attained ‘Moksha’ – free from the cycle of birth and death! 

Contd....... 

# death, life, disease, epidemic, fear of death, freedom, choices, destiny, fate, everything happens for a reason, good or bad is how i see it

read related previous posts  on death : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=death 

Points to understand and look into :

• What is it about death that frightens us? 
• For many life is going from one unfinished job to another. For others it is going from one desire to other. I have only heart complaints about both job and desires fulfilled and unfulfilled. Everyone seems to be in pain all through their life. Either being cheated by others or cheating others and self. If nothing is good about life, why are we holding on to life?
• Why can't we train our energies and intellect in understanding life, living life and making every moment and relationship worth a dime instead of living in fear of death? 

Questions answered :

• What is the better way of handling and using fear of death to living life beautifully and completely?
• What to do in times of fear?
• How to use break down situation and make it break through situation?

A simple clarification!

A simple clarification!

During 1-2 slot meditation slot - you can

• Preferably sit in meditation
• do MM japam sending reiki to Mother Earth 

Don't know to send reiki to Earth/ forgotten to do Earth healing / any other confusion - simply Chant MM Japam - just chant with reiki on - that's all - no need to say any intention / or direct it any where ----- i repeat SIMPLY CHANT MM JAPAM

If it is clear repeat what you have understood or tell how you are going to do this so that i'll know for sure that you got it right.......

and this was valid question so there was no need to say sorry.........