…contd…..
When in fact you should celebrate. Change is for sure – even in relationships!
Just think about it! The day a child is born. How are we connected to it? What are the
feelings/emotions we have for the child? Is it the same we have when the child
is 10/12 years old and being naughty/adamant/ behaving in a spoit way? Again is
the feeling same for 20/30 year old child of ours?
If our relationship hasn’t changed – that means we
still are parent-child, yet the dynamics of our relations has changed. The way
we accept our child and the expectations and anger etc emotions we generate
have changed. But can you say love is dead? No, it just has changed it’s form
and become more demanding/ assertive by forging on rules/regulations on the
child…can you expect to have the same feelings to 10 year old as a one year
old? Never. It is not possible!
But, we can’t see it or realize it! And we think
people in other relationships have changed. The day we accept the change, the
fight within us stops. We are at peace automatically. We are not unhappy because of others! We are
unhappy because of our expectations from others! And we expect them to do
things for us, say words to us the way we want always! Which can never be! So,
the pain!
Expecting changelessness from something that is
ever changing is ‘stupidity’ and the cause of pain and suffering is that ‘stupidity’
and not the world or the relationship we have with the world……to think world is
painful is ‘maya’…
Apply it this way and come back with your
experiences……….
….contd……..
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