confusion....

…contd….

People use my correct sentences in wrong places to bring validation to their wrong acts, decisions and intentions. So, beware!

When the truth in such cases actually is –

Case A: when we receive something that is good and much better but which is more than what we deserve or desire, even that is unacceptable to us. Yet mysteriously we long for things, events which we feel we won’t get even if we try and feel bad, sad dejected only to get angry, confused, frustrated when we get it. We are confused as to why we got it? We are frustrated because by its fulfillment, that desire has made us empty of a cause to complain, suffer and be in pain. Just close your eyes and go through similar instances in your life and observe your mental status and feelings. You’ll be surprised with the result. If this is so, why do we say we want something and reject it when we get it?

It just means i am saying dayya yeh kahan mai aa phasi....

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GOw47ZdnG7A

Because, we never wanted it in the first place. We wish to imagine that we are in a situation and are forced by people and situations to sacrifice the object of our desire. That way we wish to feel ‘good’ because our definition of ‘good’ is ‘one who sacrifices’ for others. Or, we want to live in the eternal state of rejection, pain and suffering.

If you are sad and disappointed when it happens and doesn’t happen to, the questions you should ask is not

‘how can I be happy?’

‘why others can’t understand me?’

‘what is the purpose of being good if I can’t be happy and get what I want?’

Instead you should ask yourselves –

‘what exactly do I want?’

‘what is the definition of happiness for me?’

‘where will I get psychiatric help?’

No. Don’t laugh at 3^rd question. I am not mocking someone or insulting the one who’s in such a situation, but I am stating a simple fact. The fact that the person has such extreme choices is a clear indication of confusion being at its peak and the person needs external help. If the person is a reiki channel then no need to go anywhere, just do hands on full body regularly and re-birth mediatation with confusion till you become calm.

…contd….