On comparison

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-but, ram’s wife would control his entire earnings. He wouldn’t be able to make a purchase of even rs.100/- on his own. She wouldn’t give him that much. That was the level she was controlling his finances and him and here Venkat was feeling bad that his wife wasn’t like his and suffering why? Because, Ram would for ever praise his wife and her management skills, Venkat thought if he is praising so much he’s really got a good wife which my wife isn’t! how fundamentally stupid!

One day Ram went into depression because of his wife’s nagging. Venkat’s wife lost job. Did he not want his wife to be like Ram’s? so, even his wife became a house-wife. And now, he lives with financial insecurity too! Remember, when you continuously complain about something, that ‘thing’ becomes a reality in your life!

Success and rate of growth depends upon our abilities and karma. But, we nod our heads when we hear that but end up comparing and suffering none-the-less. When you compare with someone, you invite their energies into your life and that their problems become yours! I’ve explained it so many times and yet……… 

Let’s assume you go on comparing your husband with SRK, eventually he’ll become a chain smoker, flirting with every girl and become totally insecure inspite of being successful in his field. And you’ll complain stating these traits – when actually your comparing nature brought about this change in him.

So instead of suffering because of comparison have a target, write an intention in your intention box, do reiki for the same, do intentions reiki, full body reiki and get what you want. This is the sure shot way to get what you want.

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