…contd…..
She continued ‘how do we compare
the mental abilities?’ 1. Why can’t you understand as he does? 2.why do I score
less than her? 3. Atleast, I got better marks than her. I could’ve got only
45/100 but my happiness is because someone got only 40/100. Does it matter
really? Would her scoring 40 make a difference in my rank or my 45 marks. I
still am with 45 and my job etc is going to notice only my marks not ‘how much above her….’ Yet today, to me
it matters.
1.
When
she can remember so well, why can’t i? How stupid. Our memory depends on our
ability to concentrate and that on our interest. If we had question, how can I
increase my memory like her then, we would’ve got the way and this answer. And
it would be easy to understand why we lack interest and how to increase it.
Thereafter results would automatically be far above our expectations. But, no.
we don’t want to fix the problem. We want to talk about it, discuss about it,
cry over it and suffer but to erase – no that is not even in our list of ‘to
achieve ‘ or ‘to do list’.
Tell me how can
we be more successful, content, confident, complete? Simply impossible. Not
because, we are not capable of achieving it. No. But, because we work and put
all our energies, thinking and feelings into ‘how to be more miserable and in
pain than yesterday?’
Learn to ask
‘right questions’. Problem is not impossible to solve. But, it becomes the
source of suffering because of wrong questions! Remember this!
…contd….
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