Sunday, September 24, 2023

On knowing anger in totality!

 


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On knowing anger in totality!






Look deeply you will find that the comparison is also not the culprit, it is the fact that the person has low self-esteem. That expressed itself as all these emotions and feelings here.

3.     And one who is spiritual will go further to find the basic reason and work on that!

4.     We can see this entire drama only when we disassociate ourselves from all this drama and see as an outsider.

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If I had identified with their taunt or insult, the result would be disastrous.

 

Now coming to know of all this, what is our gain in all this exercise? Did you do this to know about me or about people in my life? No, that would be totally useless venture to go about in the first place. Then, why did we do this exercise. We are taking an incident (doesn’t matter whether real or imaginary) and trying to see how to go about in our life the right way to set right the things that seem to be going wrong in all places….

Now, how do we apply in our life?

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Look and identify our emotion for the person/persons in our life.

2.     Look and identify our emotion to face any situation in our life.

3.     Then find out the root cause of that emotion. Where is it starting from and why?

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Then do the needful to address it.

Little by little as we get to know ourselves we’ll find the peace and happiness we have been searching for all our lives within us!

But for that, we need to go within!

Concluded.....

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# anger, jealousy, look within, emotions and their root cause, envy, hatred, basis of our feelings,

Questions addressed and points to ponder:

  • If you can't be comfortable with yourself, why would any one else be in the world?
  • If you don't want to take time and energy to know yourself, why do you think others would for you, to know you?
  • If knowing yourself unsettles you, how can you be desiring that others love, respect or want to be around you?
  • First know yourself! Get acquainted with yourself!
  • Build a beautiful relationship with self, then relationship with others would follow suit!


Also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=Me%2C+my+Guru+On+Buddha+and+sweets 

Also read the explanations and notes given at the end of the post of the link given above....

Questions time:

What did you understand from this post?

What is your take on this?

Has this post helped you in any way? If yes, how?

How are you going to apply it in your life?



                    

      

     


    1 comment:

    Aparna Deshpande said...

    Yes ma'am ab to yahi Karna hai ki jitna ho sake apne aap me hi rahena hai orhar vakt kuch bhi karne ke pahil ye jaruri hai kya soch ke hi karna hai.ase karne se apna samay bachega apne sadhana ke liye bas yahi hai thank you so much 🙏🙋🏻‍♀️❤️ Aaj bahut majja aya hai mi khup khush ho, thank for everything 💞🌹🙏
    Doing healing and i am receiving the lots of blessings 🙋🏻‍♀️🙏❤️