Easing life with being sensible!

 

Easing life with being sensible!

Lack of strength in us is the reason a situation is termed ‘problem’ by us. When we have ability to deal with situation then we call them opportunities.

The weak minded get frightened with every change in life. They get angry, worried, irritated or stressed when things don’t go their way. Being weak is not the problem. It is not a curse. It is not something that one needs to be ashamed of. But, not wanting to overcome that – well, that is the curse! Not working on that – that is the problem!

The adventurous ones term the same situation or changes in life as ‘surprises’. They embrace it and enjoy it. Difference is in the ‘perception’ and ‘ability to cope with the situation.’.

Situations and events once they manifest are not in our control. But, we can build our ‘inner strength’ and abilities. Let’s look at all those that are in our control and work on them. Keep aside all those that are not in our control and let them be!

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also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=bad+situations 

PS : Today the link i have given is very long and yet, i couldn't cut it short. Every post I went through was so right for this situation and it ended up answering all the pending questions and oft repeated questions that I was tempted to put the entire link for you to read....

I understand that it may take lots of your time and may be you will not be able to go through the whole lot in one go - no issues - just pin this post and go through it in say a week's time - one post per day like...

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