Tuesday, April 28, 2020

On Trust!




On Trust!

Further to the questions posed in https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=When+do+you+say+your+trust+is+broken%3F 


I'll re-frame the question for clarity sake.....

What is the meaning of expectations then?

What do we expect from our relationships?

What are the basis of our relationships?

What happens when our expectations are not met?

expectation in telugu means eduruchoodadam - ఎదురుచూడడం 
expectation in hindi means ummed -उम्मीद 

Whereas Trust is -

Trust in telugu means nammakam - నమ్మకం 

Trust in hindi means bharosa - भरोसा 

Is it easy now for you to understand the questions?

Try again with both.....use the same question for both expectations and trust and then come back with both your answers.......

5 comments:

Aarthi said...

good afternoon mamm,

Trust is confidence,its built overtime.


Expectation is a belief&act tat someone will& do something as v wish them to do.expectation can become habbit.

Trust may b with only few& close ones,
Expectation with everyone( office,friends,fmly)

If i help someone in their badtimes,and think the same wuld b when i need is (expectation) and it wuld b my fault,to think tat way,it may not happen the someway.
Antha kastam vachiii vallu vunaru,hope to look back,strong and bound relationship,v will handle it ana namaka ( trust) vuntundi.

When r expectations r not met,v react,hate,anger ,cry
Start the old ramayanm from first again.....from day 1 to still date...rewind ...play...frwd.

This really reminds me of F2 MOVE mamma
Now in reiki v r also learning good assan.
They look so smiple words mam,deep meaning vundiii ane just learning,tats why u keep us telling think & use ur words correctly&carefully .

This subject has much deeper meaning,will wait for ur blog mam.

Kshitija said...

Mam when ever I asked something personal about you . You used to question me “How does it matter?”
This question question tag helped me a lot as my healings proceeded as many of the issues healed when I listen or ask my self the question “ how does it matter ?”
I have expectations from myself is what I have learnt I am more restless when I do-not stand by my own expectations of myself .

Kshitija said...

Before healing sessions I did not have that nammakam or trust on me myself. Always there was an inferiority complex .

Supriya said...

I am going to split this into three parts and attempt to answer it.

In self : Trust is my belief that I will complete my journey / achieve my goals successfully. Journey/goals could be personal, career related or spiritual.

In other people: when my focus is my journey then doubting others is pointless. I believe they have a role to play in my journey and they are doing just that.

In God/Reiki: here trust is my faith that God/Reiki is with me while I am making this journey. I can surrender myself to them and keep going. If I face any obstacles, I know they are with me and will see me through.

Where there is trust there is no room for conditions, expectations or doubts. It is an unwavering belief that needs no proof.

Supriya

Supriya said...

Adding further to my above comment - I realize that during this journey back in the days when I said I did not trust someone, I did so because I did not have the belief that I will get through those days peacefully or achieve my goals. 

in the following years when I started knowing God and his ways, my trust in God developed. That’s when my trust in general got better.

Ma’am, when you told me to get closer to him and he will take care of my needs, my trust became stronger. That’s what is trust to me.

Thanks!
Supriya