Me, My Guru – on being hurt and hurting
Contd.....
I sat head bent for how long in don’t
know. The difference between her and me was just this – in an incident I looked
at the other to find fault and protect self from being hurt, she looked within
and corrected areas of her weakness, if any. No doubt, years of this practice has
made her what she is and I was where I was! We
both had same chance but one used to question the rage that rose within and the other justified the rage that rose within! I held others responsible for my happiness and hence was angry, hurt, frustrated when they behaved contrary to my expectations. She held herself responsible for her pain and suffering and worked on her conditioning, attachments and attachments every time she was hurt.
I was working towards ‘creating my hell’ and she was labouring towards ‘her heaven’. I died thousand times in my hell.
both had same chance but one used to question the rage that rose within and the other justified the rage that rose within! I held others responsible for my happiness and hence was angry, hurt, frustrated when they behaved contrary to my expectations. She held herself responsible for her pain and suffering and worked on her conditioning, attachments and attachments every time she was hurt.
I was working towards ‘creating my hell’ and she was labouring towards ‘her heaven’. I died thousand times in my hell.
And she
died to be in her heaven.
Both were working incessantly. It’s
just that results were different.
It’s true that hard work gives
success. But if hard work is not in the right direction then the results can
never be right!
Every hard work can't give 'right results'.....
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