Please read the related posts for few of your questions .....i can give you link but read the complete post too to understand that point completely.....the link itself explains the point covered in it....
i have covered as many as i could think...with regard to your query...it answered not once but umpteen times and in so many ways...but if you don't want to listen to this answer, then i am at loss of being useful to you....
don't be lazy and say 'so many posts to read? your pain is also so huge as per you...so read them to know everything about it in one go....
every link gives answers to each of your question and the link itself has the 'words' that explain the question that you asked.....or the clarification that you are seeking....
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=why+we+receive+what+we+receive
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=ask+and+it+shall+be+given
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=on+wishes+unfulfilled (this and the above link will have couple of repeated posts ....please bear with it....)
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=happiness
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=wants
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=freedom
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=addicted
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=suffering
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=why+we+meet+the+people+we+meet+in+our+life
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=life+situations
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=partners
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=soul+agenda+
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=little+soul
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=psychic+impressions
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=in+search+of+happiness
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=why+we+are+where+we+are
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=why+we+get+what+we+get
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=prayers+answered
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=every+thing+happens+for+a+reason
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=reasons
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=decisions
https://kantipadam.blogspot.in/search?q=we+create
and stop beating up yourself with 'self pity' and wallowing in self-pity in the name of wanting 'happiness and good people' in your life always......that is the mantra for suffering ONLY....
only healing will 'slowly and steadily' get you out of this 'state of mind' and let you experience the abundance called 'happiness' which is nothing but reflection of your state of mind.....but yes, it doesn't happen overnight...some have got it in couple of years and others in a decade and still others - well they are still groping in darkness inspite of holding 'all the degrees' of reiki.....if you don't work on yourself and your perspective no degree and no amount of attending classes can get you there....but attending classes and completing degrees can give you an understanding of problem in your perspective and ways to heal it and remind you to hold on to healing even when the goal looks unachievable and unreal...that's all....
not everyone in the world heals or in the path of sadhan......and most of them are going from bad to worst as years progress in their lives...you can also chose to be one among them...no one can question you on that...or you can chose to learn what needs to be learned, heal what needs to be healed, change your perspective, develop clarity of thought and work towards emptying that 'painful and confused' heart and mind of yours so that you can experience the joy of 'existence' that is already yours but which you are not able to experience because of all that clutter that is in there...
'you are creating your world and all that it encompasses' - till you accept that and sit to change the way you are 'creating your world' you'll never come out of your suffering.....
2 comments:
So true! I follow only two principles which have helped me in the past.
1) You are not special. Everyone has problems, and we are a lot more fortunate than majority of the population. So stop the self pity!
2) Stop blaming others for your sadness. No one has the power to give or take away your happiness. It is yours and only yours
You will find people with severe disabilities and family problems thrive in their life, because they choose to live happily despite what life throws at them. Just google these name Helen Keller, Lionel Barrymore, Stephen Hawking.
Even Abraham Lincoln was blessed with depression and a wife who was too demanding.
Ask yourself if your problems are more than what they had and if no, just stop crying and express gratitude. Juts dont say the 5 lines, mean them and
You can check the following Youtube videos as well:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LIF5BnugxYM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=trVEYcSPmr0
Thank you so much Madhumita Garu for sharing those video links. Those videos were very inspirational :)
Thank You Revathi Mam for writing again and again on the same topics , giving all of us more chances to understand things properly.
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