This time – Seek not,
Ask not!
At the very sight of problem, the average rush seeking help. They ask others to do the job. They allocate their responsibility on to others. And yet, assume them to be ‘good’ person for asking others to heal the people they are supposed to heal or wanted to heal. Wake-up! By passing the buck you don’t get any ‘punya’. Your image of being ‘good person’ and doing well is wrong and baseless. How long do you want pass your responsibility on to others? At a drop of hat as kids you rushed to your mom seeking her protection. As grownups, you are no better if in the name of healing you are passing around messaging asking others to heal for you and on your behalf!?
There is a person in
your life that you dislike for being irresponsible. And yet, you wish to own
that quality and exhibit it every single time you face a situation where you
need to act!
When the time comes to
heal any person in your life, sit to heal.
Sit through the day if
need be, but heal.
No need to ask again
and again ‘how to heal’ or ‘what to heal?’
Heal by using every
technique learnt by you. Sit through the day and night if you really are
concerned about the person. Sit for days on end if you please. But it is high
time you own your ‘want’ to heal the other by healing him/her. It is your need
and want to heal the person in your life. It is your desire to heal that person
in your life. Then heal! Why demand or expect others to fulfill your need, want
and desire?
Own up your
responsibility, concern or affection – whatever you think it is and heal. Don’t
give excuses of fear to heal. If fear grips you, heal your fear through the day
first. Don’t expect others to do what you want to do.
If you pass on your responsibility
and you think, it’s ok. Then how can you expect people in your life to be responsible?
The passion you have to hate the persons in your life, Use that passion to heal now.
You have commitment to
run away from responsibility. Use that commitment now to heal.
Divert your energies to
find fault with others to healing.
You have fear which you use to
reach others for help, well use it to heal.
You have passion and
commitment. So just use it to heal!
Your time and energy –
shift it to healing.
Fear is the reason that
is enough for you to sit and heal!
It is not an excuse
that can be used to run away from healing – crying!??
Stop looking for
shoulder to cry!
Stop using fear as an
excuse to seek help!
Stop living like leech.
When you want respect,
earn it by living like a man! Unless you rise to the occasion, no one can teach
you to respect and love yourself. Use this opportunity to respect yourself. And
you can’t respect yourself unless you own up a responsibility and fulfill it.
The question is not ‘whether you succeeded or not’ in healing. The question is
did you do it on your own or not! Leave the results to Reiki. You concentrate
on the ‘healing’ ONLY!
Unless you put up a
fight – your fight you can never respect yourself come what may! As long as you
seek support you live like a beggar. And no beggar however much he earns will
be respected the way the king is respected.
Enough of pity cries. Enough
of running away! Enough of going and falling at others feet! Time you stand up
on your own and stand up like a man!
Arise, awake and stop
not till the goal is reached!
Marte mar jaayega sher
lekin ghans nahin khata
Toot kar bhi sitaara
koi zameen par nahin girtha…….
bahut dekhen hai batein karne wale
batein karne wale kahaan kaam kiya karthe hai..
woh jisne dekha hi nahin toofan ko uththe samandar mein
woh kya samandar mein khakh safar karthe hai.....
मरते मर जायेगा शेर लेकिन घाँस नहीं खायेगा
टूट कर भी सितारा कोई ज़मीन पर नहीं गिरता
बहुत देखें है बातें करने वाले
बातें करने वाले कहाँ काम किया करते हैं
वह जिसने देखा ही नहीं तूफ़ान को उठते समन्दर में
वह क्या समन्दर में खाख सफर करते हैं
A tiger would rather die than eat grass
even after it dies, a shooting star never falls on the ground
many are seen people who talk tall (who make claims)
but where do people who talk work?
if one hasn't seen (or faced) storm in the high seas
can you say he has sailed in high seas?
tip : Here life is compared to sea and storm to challenges and situations we face in life...
# motivational, being responsible, storms and challenges of life, life struggles, healing and seeking help, help and dependence, independence and self respect,
also reads suggested :
Points to be understood :
- What is the difference between seeking help and being dependent?
- What is the connection between being responsible and owning up our roles and gaining respect...
- Can a person who runs away from battle field every time have respect for himself? And with no respect for self, can his survival give him any sense of worthiness?
- Are you using fear as an excuse to be irresponsible or using fear to face the challenge/situation and overcoming it?
And by now 'sorry' has lost its flavour too.........if you are really sorry, then own up your situations of life, fight it, heal it, address it and overcome or face it........
don't use that word - live it by acting on the need of the hour........
2 comments:
Thank you this post helped me a lot
I will certainly share my experiences
Very true!
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