Contd.......
Putting
quarantine to good use!
Emotional
investment :
# I don’t
get time to play/spend time with my kid/spouse/ family
# I feel I
have failed as a mother/wife as I am not spending time with kid as I am too
busy with my work.
# I feel
guilty of not cooking good food to my kid/spouse.
# I feel
like a bad mother/parent as I am not able to teach my kid anything substantial.
We are
staying with our ‘family’ only. This is to show us that at the end and all that
matters is ‘this family’. Once the lockdown is lifted we have a different war
to wage going out. We’ll have to work for longer hours for lesser pay maybe,
make other sacrifices. All that would look worth it if we have built strong
emotional balance in our life. A person’s fear is directly proportionate to his
emotional well-being.
And his
emotional well being is based on his connect with his near and dear ones. The
more loving a person’s relationship is, the less he is fearful of change and
tough times.
So, go make
those bonds that make you strong!
These desires/complaints (which are high lightened in red) can’t be done away with a wand! You need to do your part here. And Universe had given that much needed time that you asked for to fulfill these wishes of yours. You can’t even complain.
These desires/complaints (which are high lightened in red) can’t be done away with a wand! You need to do your part here. And Universe had given that much needed time that you asked for to fulfill these wishes of yours. You can’t even complain.
Contd.......
# emotional well being, love and relationships, mental strength, family, near and dear ones, emotional connect
also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=family
Points to understand :
Questions answered :
# emotional well being, love and relationships, mental strength, family, near and dear ones, emotional connect
also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=family
Points to understand :
- If you can't savour what you have, you can never value what you get!
- If you haven't found 'love in relationships' by now, you can't get it even if you keep searching for that 'special person' to share it with!
- Love and affection is all about sharing, caring, playing together, teasing, being for one other. We learn it from the family we are born into. We need to connect with them inspite of differences to learn the art of happiness.
- I have found that bad times brings people together like never before. The family and friends that face calamity together bond like never before. People who bond over pain stay connected and bonded for life time to come.
- If Quarantine is so depressive then going out is fatal. Are you saying being safe is depressive for you?
Questions answered :
- How to address my pain, suffering, depression, frustration and such related feelings during this 'forced period of lockdown'?
- why can't I be leading a happy family life?
2 comments:
Hi everyone
I was going through the posts of
on road trip
I felt really amazing while reading that
When there was I - I was seeing myself in those situations
When ever Aziz spoke it was really like a guru bhai who was speaking my guru bhai is my guru only
“ Feel her presence
Just be with her you will have wonderful experiences “ Said Rahul and Aziz
Yes just being with reiki gave me wonderful experiences of my life
When she says “ I did not travel I Thoroughly enjoyed the journey “
Wow I literally have goosebumps how beautifully the difference between travel and journey Has been written over there
“ We had many incidents on 7th 8th 9th days but those did not bother me I was thoroughly enjoying my self “ I was speaking here yes many incidents happen but they do not bother as long as you are in sadhan and u have faith in reiki or guru .u have that balance in mind
She wrote about the guru’s character being unaffected by what others say
Wow !!!! That’s really what she is
I simply fell in love with the guru what a balance of mind she has .
She was unaffected by the taunts of the people She doesn’t need Leave alone need she doesn’t want anyone to fight her battles And look at the beauty of her character she is not crying ,cribbing and shouting on her students for not fighting her battles
Such a great character building
I wish I had such stitha pragnatha
She wrote about planning From making a list of people to list of small things such as safety pins
Now I understood planning in a better way
When she mentioned about write it down lot of mental stress will be relieved really this helped me a lot . I started writing the things they r helping me
After reading this I observed and noticed when ever I had to do shopping I was very tired because I was doing the things mentally
Today’s understanding of this is different from yesterday’s understanding of this blog post
After the light circle I continue with a Meditation & have experienced a few times a very deep & peaceful silence...that is difficult to describe... I had a dream of meeting my old Master in a temple where he asks me to organise for something & continue teaching.. suddenly I see a tiny saint who is just about 8-10 inches tall looking at me.. I bow down & touch his feet reverently.. he smiles & I wake up...
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