…contd……..
Yes, as Vaibhav said it is a
great statement but don’t stop there. It
is the mantra that ought to be applied in your everyday life situations – well I’ll
not reveal the benefits, I expect you to come back with your experiences………
But, I can give one example for
application. Imagine for example a
person tests your patience by being rude, taunting you or creating trouble for
you. (This applies only to such of people who are in our family/friends and who
are troubling in a not so dangerous way. I mean this doesn’t apply to stalkers,
people who tease or harass others – them handle harshly and take stern action
against them the first time it self!). if someone is going on belittling you or
insulting you then, show his mistakes/flaws but with the smile on your face and
love in your heart. If you can’t
generate love at least see that you don’t do it to insult him. Put forth your
argument but without vehemence. Cut him to his size (when nothing soft works)
but without enjoying the pleasure of hurting him….
Hope I am clear…..any
doubt, please feel free to question me!
……..contd……….
4 comments:
Mam,
Related to this and few 2-3 recent posts I wanted some clarity. I had some personal queries which I could not post here but I have sent you a message on the "Kantipadam" page on Facebook. Please read them and suggest.
I am eagarly waiting for your suggestions.
I have something to share....
Me and my husband were arguing about something and in that course he said few words which insulted me, I too shooted back few words.
That night I fortunately read these blogs and then I understood that I have generated negative vibes. Instead as mam said I should hv just given a pause at that moment and tried to know the reason for tht discussion by more Sadhan. I realized my mistake and the next time we met just greeted him with nice smile and love which made things normal. I also healed that situation.
I now understand that I need to increase my sahhdhan
Hi
I have something to share....
Me and my husband had an argument and in that course he told few words which insulted me and so I shooted back words at him...
Later in the day fortunately I read these posts and realized that I hv generated negative vibes. Instead of reacting to the situation I should hv paused at tht moment and later should hv tried to analyze y it had hapenned - of course by Sadhan.
So the next time I met him, greeted him with smile and love which could solve the issue. I also healed tht situation.
I now understand the importance of Sadhan and the need to do it more. I am sure tht if I stop reacting to situations in my life I can be a more better person. Thanks mam for giving such clarity.
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