On Trust!
We need to
check our meanings and state of mind when we use these words!
Trust –
what does it mean to you?
When do you
say you have trust on someone?
Why do you
trust someone?
When do you
say your trust is broken?
If we trust someone does it mean that the other is "bound" to behave in a set fashion to be in our "circle of trust"?
How often does a person whom we trust 'ask' us to trust him in the first place?
Is our trust our need based? Is trust our need based?
If it is our need based then can it be called trust at all?
If we trust someone does it mean that the other is "bound" to behave in a set fashion to be in our "circle of trust"?
How often does a person whom we trust 'ask' us to trust him in the first place?
Is our trust our need based? Is trust our need based?
If it is our need based then can it be called trust at all?
What do you
expect from the person whom you trust?
Note : All those who are sharing their experiences, understandings, reiki miracles on daily basis, if you keep it up for the rest of our covid days then at the end you'll learn why and how it was necessary........only those who are doing it regularly will get the answers though......
8 comments:
Greetings Mam,
The positive side of this Lockdown as I see since the 1st day of declaration of lockdown is the healing of our mother earth, reduction in pollution by vehicles, industries etc... I was so happy and on 7th heaven when I heard from Modiji about Complete PAN India Lockdown...
From past few weeks I also see another benefit , a beautiful one, I've seen 2-3 new species of birds near my home, which I never saw earlier, it was so heart warming to hear them chirping , flying behind each other so fastly, zipping past our building, playing with each other ,showing their maneuvering skills , its an amazing sight, fills my heart with so much joy...
After a very long time I have seen huge numbers of Indian House Sparrow,Red Vented Bulbul, Indian Koel etc.. and few more... Also feel very happy to feel cool breeze in the evenings... Feel Blessed...
Thank You Guruji,
Thank You Reiki...
Trust!
This post got me thinking. I may not be able to answer most of your questions here, but I can certainly share my perception about it.
My mind went through all situations when my trust was tested. I realized that whenever I am to work with someone unknown I go in with a trust on reiki that it will all work out for the higher good. However, when it is about pairing up with someone known, I have to remind myself that it’s all about the process and not about the person. The key is to focus on the process and not the person.
I remember, before starting reiki I was a big skeptic and a non-believer. Not just that, I had very low trust in self, leave alone anyone else. Trust was not my cup of tea. Now, after years of healing I know that only 1 thing matters, my trust in God and the part of god that’s inside of me. If i surrender myself to the Devine grace, then I will constantly receive guidance and protection(mainly from my own fears). I don’t have to trust or doubt anyone.
When we have trust in god, we will know that his creation (everybody around us) will do the right thing. The question in my mind usually is: forget about others, am I ready to do the right thing?
Thanks!
Supriya
Ever since I read this post, I have been thinking about my trust on people around me. While I don’t need a certain behavior from my parents to be able to trust them, however there was a time when I used to expect certain behavior from others (especially my spouse, friends etc) so I could trust them. I don’t do that anymore. I kept wondering how did this change in me and what is trust to me now.
In today’s light circle I received an answer about it. Trust on someone to me is my belief that there is a significant part in them that is loving, caring, companionate and understanding amount other qualities. As long as I believe that this part exists in them (which is almost always) I believe in them. Basically this part connects us and gives me a hope that we can face good and bad together. We do not have to agree on everything. I think, to me behavior does not determine my trust in them anymore. It’s my faith in that Devine quality in them that determines my trust.
I remember something similar being covered in my reiki class (quite possible that it was covered more than once).
Thanks ma’am for asking these questions. It helped me reflect on the journey I have been through. Today I have another reason to thank our healing exercises we have been through all these years.
Love and light!
Supriya
Looks so smiple"TRUST",
Pls excuses me if im wrong,tried to answer ur QS mam.
1)Believing in oneself ,keeping the msg to oneself,& standing up to expectation.loyal & true.
2)when v want to share something really personal or maintain secretly,which can b shared only to one ya two people.
When v r worried,tense,or confused,pain and seek for right answer.
3)week from inside,feel lonely, and want the other person listen to us& help us out ,find solution.
4 ) when the other party is not up to our expectation,supports others side.when v don't hear the answer v r expecting.
5)not exactly,but little ego,& mind say yes.
6) always
7) mostly need based......
First place goes for GOD( for good or bad,happy or sad) i trusted you..next fmly,friends.
I expect truness,correct ,sharing& loving& to b loyall.
I just learnt if once" TRUST" is broken its just "RUST"
Trusting someone is not bad,but to expect the same trust from him may b not correct( may b)
Finally TRUST ANTEE confidence,believe for oneself,GoD or any matter....tat external forces cant break or disturb us( fevicol ka jodd hey).
Thank you mam.
Last msg on trust on "GOD "(General i said).Back to reiki,& healing session read blog,and our experience helped me to change& see things.
Mamms few words which always keep reminding .
Situation is real,suffering is optional..
Just let go ..drop..
This shall also pass,
Reacting& responding to situation
Heal the area of pain,check ur thoughts.
Helps me a lot.
Thank you mamm.
When we trust someone we just want to feel secure with them. We might want to share our thoughts and experiences with them, knowing well that they wouldn't use it to their advantage or to manipulate us.
Expectations are when we expect some favors from someone, or when we expect someone to behave in a certain way.
Trust is much more than a word for me!! For me it is the foundation of life...my friend Aparna said it beautifully - "it's the 'Life' of life!!
I trust in love, in life & in light... sometimes I hv been beaten up or ditched by life situations or a friend or an associate... it taught me the few lessons I needed to learn & grow...only made me trust that somehow (I don't know how), sometime (I don't know when) & somewhere (I don't know where) things will fall in place at the right time...becoz life is a process...a journey & the most beautiful & profound truths are inherently connected with trust!!
With love & trust, Sridhar
Trust – what does it mean to you?
It means belief , faith in the values , ideals instilled in you
For ex
If reiki says this will work for u do this then it definitely will work .
When do you say you have trust on someone?
We trust someone when they live what they speak or they stand by the ideals stated by them.
Ex : if a person has faith in the work he / she is doing he/ she will not be bothered about others and their thoughts
Why do you trust someone?
We trust someone based on their character or the way they lead their life
When do you say your trust is broken?
The trust is broken due to falsehood, trickery etc
If we trust someone does it mean that the other is "bound" to behave in a set fashion to be in our "circle of trust"?
I should state here before reiki after reiki
Before reiki I felt the person in bound to the trust and he needs to be in my circle of trust
After reiki
No one is bound it is not a conditional thing
How often does a person whom we trust 'ask' us to trust him in the first place?
Never did they ask me to trust them they asked me to trust the process of life they showed it
Is our trust our need based? Is trust our need based?
Our trust need not be our need based
Trust is not our need based
If it is our need based then can it be called trust at all?
When it is need based we cannot call it trust
What do you expect from the person whom you trust?
I am not expecting any thing
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