Soul connect

Soul connect

One person lost her husband to health complications and she was glad it happened. She never liked her husband. She was married for more than 20 years. She had grown up children too. But, she felt he was conditioning her life. She felt free after his death. She was happy, contended and reveled in the unconditional way of living…..

One more lady lost her husband to health complications. She was deeply in love with her husband. She fought with her parents to share life with him. She shared very few years of life together with him. She was devastated when he fell sick. She felt the emptiness in her life when he died. She loved him dearly. Yet she had to live life for the expression of their love their child who was a toddler….

The stories of both these women look similar when only few facts are taken into consideration.  But they are way apart from each other….

Don’t assume the other to experience or feel how you feel in a similar situation. It is not the same….it need not be….it necessarily is not…..

Stop assuming facts….

Stop assigning your feelings to their stories and life……

contd......

Also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=death 

Points to ponder and understand - 

a. Stop pitying people who are in mourning....or in pain 

b. Many times the pain we assume others are undergoing is just our assumption. Many times they are celebrating the 'sorry event' of their lives (which bye the way is no way wrong )...it's just that don't use same yardstick to measure two events of life......

c. You can't assume the 'quality of relationship' based on the "NAME" given to it.....