On feedback

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‘Not knowing’ is not a place you should be ashamed of. None in the world knows-it-all! Remember that! One may be an exponent in one field but can’t be in all. So relax! Don’t be shy of asking. You’ll not be taken for a stupid. Not knowing is called ignorance. That’s wrong if only you stick to it for life-time. But asking to breaking that ‘ignorance’ is the first step towards success.  So seek answers for questions who don’t know answers. That’ll help you to handle the situation better by understanding it better.

Nothing can be solved by breaking your head about it. Seek answers and you’ll know the solution.

Don’t imagine everything in that little brain of yours. Seek answers from the parties involved.

Then how not to feel depressed for the expectations not met? Especially of and from self!

Simple! Don’t gauge your success with your end result or target/expectations. Instead assess your achievement day wise. Ask yourself –

a.      Did I learn anything more about my problem today?

b.      How am I going to put this know-how to use to find the solution?

c.       What more is unknown to me about this issue?

d.      Where can I seek those facts and how do I deal with them?

e.      Am I being emotional or practical about the situation?

Ask such questions and write down the answer in the sheet of paper. See the solution come out clearly in front of you. Once your job is done, shred the papers and be done with them – for good!

Apply these tips to your “problem area” and do benefit. I’ve answered your doubts in one go. Now it’s up to you to put it to good use!

May you see through your confusion and succeed in your life………