Answers are not as important as the Questions. Because question is the cause and answer is just an effect.....

Achievers/ Successful people Ask the Question -
"How do I complete this task in this given situation?"

and Losers ask the question -
"How is this situation responsible for my failure?"

or
"Why in this given situation I cannot complete this task?"

Art of Questioning is a very important art - nay essential art for the growth of any person.
DEVELOP IT.....