Wednesday, May 12, 2021

on owning up!

 


The Mystic says - on owing up!



Every body seems to know how the other person is supposed to behave.

But no body has courage to own up their own nature, attitudes, actions, truths, character, reality!

And because of this every one pays the price of losing the 'right person' who wishes right for you. They hold on to wrong memory, emotion and psychic impressions in the name of painting others' character!!?? 

What an irony!

And that is the how 'karma' comes into play in their lives.........

# karma, mystic says, quotes and sayings, 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=The+stinking+frog 

Questions addressed :

  • "But he is a parent/brother/guru/manager etc...how can he talk/behave like that?"
  • "But is not master/parent supposed to behave like this?"
Points to be understood :
  • Do a small work on yourself. Sit in meditation and ask "If I expect patience from the other person because of his station in life as parent/guru/God/brother etc, do I exhibit the same in similar situation in my life as a parent/brother/co-worker?"
Pointer to help you think :
When people come late and I look at watch or ask them "what time did I tell the class was?", the immediate reaction and statement is "I knew you would shout maam, but I had X/Y /Z reason for being late. Everyone told me previously that maam was very strict and that we should be very careful with her. I didn't believe that maam. They were true. That's why people are afraid of you maam"

Look at the response closely. Read it more than couple of times. Seems very familiar - isn't it?
Now coming to this situation. YOU CAME LATE! YOU ARE WRONG. WHEN A TIME IS GIVEN, IT IS EVERY ONE'S DUTY TO COME ON TIME. THE ONE WHO HAS COME LATE IS ACTUALLY TELLING 'MY TIME AND OTHER WORKS ARE IMPORTANT' AND YOUR TIME IS NOT. 
Isn't it? Sit in meditation and look within yourself. Look at yourself. And yet your answer projects a 'bad me'.
You use the word 'strict' as if it is a 'bad nature or word'. I am punctual and value time. It is good and right attitude. But, the accusation is on me saying you are 'strict'. Look within! Question your words, your emotions then, your anger and where it is coming from. 
You are wrong and I am blamed for being strict. That is your attitude, nature and karma. And what results you expect from such line of thought and actions? No good will come from such nature and principles. And then  you ask 'why good people suffer maam?' assuming yourself to be good here.......what an irony?
Those who understand this simple example will know the areas that needs to be addressed. It looks small but those who are going to meditate and then heal it will find results which they would term as miracles.
and others who rest on their logical mind to understand neither will sit in meditation nor will heal themselves of this twisted way of thinking. And then complain "But maam, why such miracles don't happen in my life?"
If you understand this post, major part of your healing can be addressed.
If you are open to this post, you'll find answers to so many of your issues.
If you are applying this post to yourself and work on yourself, then miracles will come your way!




2 comments:

Srinivas said...

Understood Madam

Kshitija said...

Thank for this post because after this I started working on owing things myself and realised that I have been bluffing many things to myself in the name of self pity and false ego . I started working on being truthful to myself . I started writing and found that I cannot bluff things any more . Started expressing my
Feelings
Emotions
Thoughts
What ever I have been thinking and
I have started writing myself in a journal what ever it was I was truthful towards me and this is helping me a lot
It gave me some clarity
Thank you very much Guruji u have asked us to write things down in many of our classes and I tried to ignore but now I realised u have given one of the best healing techniques to relieve many things also writing is helping me to be a best friend of my self .
I always had a feeling that I don’t deserve the things I have because I am a sinner but now I realised there are things I deserved I started thanking reiki for this blessing and abundance .
I started coming out of this blame game . I realised am not as bad as I thought about me I am realising my worth .
I started being honest with myself .
I started thinking about my goals , my wants and many more . I am discovering a new me . I started establishing a connect with myself .
Thank you very much
Thank you reiki thank you Guruji thank you blog