Saturday, May 8, 2021

Need for pain

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Need for pain




The result – the wish comes true but with the price of a pain that needs to be borne before its fulfillment. Pain is not the ‘sadistic pleasure’ God / Universe derives from us against our desire! No it becomes the way to fulfill our desire. 

Only crying at that level and for so long could have cleared his throat that way that he could without even formal musical training be considered one of the best voices and singers of all times to come!

Greater the fight, bigger is the medal!

Bigger the war, greater the reward!

The greedy, coward, selfish nature in us stops us from paying the price ‘required’ to make our dream come true.

But the mind that is trained to cut through our ego, rest in sadhan, trust in the Divine/Sadhan / reiki will work on its fear to come out as ‘hero’ of every struggle that is laid in our path……

Now the fight can be personal, professional or even social!

COVID is one such fight. No one knows the outcome. No one knows what is waiting for us. No one is able to predict anything here for sure!*

I don’t predict future. I am a believer of ‘writing and designing our future’. And so am in ‘healing path’. Our future is going to be right whatever the outcome be. Note here clearly. I said ‘future is going to be right’ and not ‘good’. Good is subjective. What you consider as good is only your ‘desire’. And you are happy only when your condition of that desire is fulfilled. But, here I am not saying ‘good’ I am saying ‘right’. 

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# pain and suffering, desire and its fulfillment, destiny, twists and turns of life, life - a miracle, unfolding of life events, everything happens for a reason, everything happens for good, 

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=everything+happens+for+good

Questions addressed : 

  • Why do tough times happen in life?
  • Why is there pain and suffering in life and in this world?
  • How to benefit from pain and suffering in life?
  • What is the difference between 'good' and 'right' in life?

Points to be understood : 
  • Sometimes, pain and suffering come with a lesson to be learnt.
  • Sometimes, pain and suffering come to bring order in the chaos that we have made or created in our lives.
  • Every order that needs to be brought is painful as a process. But it is inevitable. 
  • If we had and are following 'dharma' in every wakeful point of Time there would be no need for the Universe to intervene and put it in order when things go out of hand. At such times there is no pain involved as there is no process that is required to set things right!
  • Know the difference between good and right and walk on the right path always to avoid pain in life.

*You also don't ask a senseless question "maam, when will it end? or Why this maam and so on...?"
Instead ask "How do I make best use of this time which when it passes away is never going to come back?"
"How do I use the emotions that are disturbing in me to outgrow them and become more strong person - the one I am born to be...?"


Did this post benefit you and give answers to your directions to address your disturbed emotions?
Are you working on being centered?

1 comment:

Kshitija said...

Thank you very much this post has given me a solace and also it has given me food for thought am I centered ?
I am working on my self
What you have written has be come a one liner for me the future is going to be right
I am repeating it to myself
we do not know the outcome but our job is to work
Thank you