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Next step is to stop blaming yourself for making wrong choices in your past. You can’t change the past. It’s over. Just concentrate on what needs to be done. “If only I had done or hadn’t done” will change nothing – for anyone. So stop going that lane. If at all you need to, seek what you could’ve done differently if given a choice. This can be a learning process that would help you to choose differently next time. Also, see what you can learn from ‘it’. There always is a ‘lesson’ we can pick up from every mistake that we make.

Don’t miss out on that. But once you are done with this, move on. Stop blaming yourself and instead channel your energies in shaping your present and future.

Stop day dreaming and wish making! This is one of the commonest mistakes of all – assuming everything can be fixed in a jiffy. No, dear, Rome was not built in a day. Instead of crying and wishing for a miracle to happen, work for it to happen. And that is by following all of these tips and techniques religiously. Then not only would you have healed your present issue, you would’ve created a future more beautiful then you’ve imagined and gained ‘attitudes’ that would be priceless and work effortlessly for you for the rest of your lives transforming you and your all lives to come!

Stop comparing with others and wallowing in self pity! This can only take you much deeper into your problem. It can’t get you out ever! Even if the entire world were to pity you, your life wouldn’t better for a second. Then why go down that lane if it can’t take you towards happiness which you are seeking.

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