….contd…..
In IIdg class giving example of
‘getting a bus no. 16’ (hope you all remember) I clearly explain how inspite of
every sentence being right is actually wrong as per your requirement. We don’t
change words to please the bus, but to fulfill
our desire. Hope you all are with me here!
Why is it important to word it
correctly? Because you get what you ask! Remember that and that is what is
called as “your karma coming back to you”. So, inspite of being in pain, (since
I assume you want to come out of present situation) sit quietly and do let go
meditation and then sit in meditation and seek answer for question ‘where did I
go wrong?’ you’ll see exactly ‘the words’ that you uttered which is forcing you
to face today’s situation. That understanding is ‘accepting that you are
responsible for where you are”. Unless you do it, you’ll end up feeling
victimized and generate hatred for people you feel are responsible for your
situation.
Next what I can infer from this
situation is that out of so many students – most of whom are software people
only couple of them responded. None of the others are grateful, don’t and can’t
come to aid when needed and that too for the blog that I write to them. Blah,
blah, blah. I can go on and on in this line of thought, when actually the cause
can be something like a. since the request was in comments section, no one
noticed b. because it was addressed to a person, others didn’t pitch in or any
other. But an angry and expectant mind will not see any of these reasons. And
it will take me on a journey no less painful than ‘hell’ and I cry and complain
that ‘my students are useless, selfish etc’.
But this is a right way of reading
this situation i.e., I got response immediately and exactly the way I wanted,
so thank you reiki, thank you Guruji. I can feel grateful to Vaibhav and bless
him for such good response. Why? Is it not his duty to do? NO. A big No!
...contd....
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