On gratitude and suffering
First of all, to all those who have been
enjoying or complimenting the look of ‘NEW’ blog, the credit goes to Vaibhav.
Bless him!
Many times I pick up an
incident/comment etc to explain a point. Because I feel, that way It is easier
for the other to understand. It is called as “going from the known into
unknowing to know it”. This time too I wish to take this incident to explain a
point I have discussed many times before. Why again? Because, it is still not
understood and if understood not applied and those who are experiencing ‘pain
and suffering’ are not able to see the cause of their pain and suffering. Hence
this exercise.
I requested to be guided the
procedure to make changes in the blog. And apart from Vaibhav only couple of
others responded with answers or solution. This boy’s was of course very
detailed and just right as per my need so I took it.
Now, in this situation you can see
there are so many students who are reading and benefiting from this blog and
yet only couple of them reverted back with solutions. How can we see it? What can
we infer from it?
First and foremost is the fact that
“You get help/solution only if you state that you’ve a problem and don’t know
how to get out of it. 
And while seeking help, don’t filter people or choose
people whom you prefer would help you. Don’t. Don’t give a feeling or
statements like “I would not have asked help but XYZ asked me to ask you…” what
does that mean? Are you doing a favour by seeking help? Are you saying it’s a forced request
but I don’t want you to step in?
Don’t say ‘I didn’t mean it but don’t
know why maam took it that way?” etc. Please remember right from I degree and 1st
hour of class I am stressing the importance of right words and the import of
your every word. It’s not what you think that matters but how you word it that
matters.
...contd....
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