On pain in love
The major misconception about ‘love’ is that ‘it makes our life better’.
Many of the
complaints ‘in love’ are –
·
I am unhappy because of him/her
·
He/she is not living up to my expectations
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I ‘thought’ I’ll be happy marrying him but my parents
were right. He is not right for me!!!
·
Why can’t she be just as I want her to be!
Situation is real. Pain is also real. But the ‘basis’ of pain blame and suffering is not ‘love’. It is ‘expectation’.
contd.....
# on love, relationships, expectations, being happy in relationships, love and pain, pain and suffering, disappointment,
also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=the+real+growth+is+in+letting+go
Questions addressed :
- Why is there so much of suffering in love?
- Why do I have such a family? If only my family was different, I would have been more happier!
- Who are the people who are happy after marriage?
- How come so many people are happy in their life?
- If only my desires were met I would be so happy and there would have been no need for me to be angry and mean in life...
- As long as my expectations, conditioning of mind and my attitude is what it is, I am bound to suffer with whomsoever I live with.
- Change the attitude and see the relationship change for better.
- Change in life partner will not bring any joy in life. Only change in attitude can bring that joy in life.
- So we better change it with the present person and experience happiness.
- Sit with your parents to know their complaints about you. Then look at your complaints that you have with your kids. You will find it funny that it is more or less the same.
- You came out right (as per your idea!) so would your kid. So relax and just love your child. And before long he shapes up better than your fears and beyond your expectations!
4 comments:
Thank you 🙏
I have been thinking very much about the expectations of my life since past two days so this post has addressed that for me . So will work on it .
I didn’t know about the leather good thank you for the write up on them . I have stopped using them and would be conscious about them .
Thank u mamm,I only knew sheep,goat ,camel skin r used....cow teleduuu,tyd I read it's used for shoes,wallets, leather jackets,car leather,belts,furniture.
Crocodile & pigs skin r also in use.
Thank u mamm.
Thank you Aarti for posting the comment to the old blog post. After going over the comment and the post, it got me thinking and I looked around my house. Me (and my family) found many items that had pure leather in them. We discussed it, felt for their pain and made a decision that we will not buy any more leather items knowingly.
Thank you for that post maam. It answered a few other questions also, for me.
Thank you!
Supriya👍🙏🙏,woooo&great u have alre,👀ady started to put an ,👀👀👁️👁️ checking.
Villages lo laga mana kuda ఇంటికి ఒక cow matha,vunte bagunduu.
Variety of breed have been exported from india.Ponaguru(పోనాగురు) jathI avuu gives us 100 lrts of milk,and is costliest cow. this milk is uesd for abishekam for tirupathi Balagi.read in article mamm.
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