Fear and love

 

Fear and love

When fear ceases, then alone comes

perfect happiness and perfect love!

Then if fear is the stumbling block to experiencing happiness and love, should it not be removed?

But for that we need to know fear. We need to look into its face and see it for what it is!

Only when we get to know fear, will we understand it. Only when we understand the redundancy of our fear can we see the powerlessness of fear over us.

And then it would be easy for us to overcome it eventually!

Accept first that we fear!

Don't justify. Don't market it. Don't condemn it. Just accept.

Then look into it.

Know it.

See how it works. See how it is useless.

Heal it.

Transcend it. Overcome it! 

And then be free of fear!

And lo! You are the Master of  yourself. You have won everything worth winning in the world!

Now to win the things of the world is a child's game for you!

So go for it! 

You have it in you.

You can do it!

Become fearless O Lionhearted souls of this great land!

Take one fear at a time. Look into it. Look its effect on you and your life. Know it. Heal it. Overcome it and become free of it.

One step at a time. Every day become more and more fearless!

# fear, freedom, destiny, attitude, healing

also read previous post : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=fear

questions answered : 

• What is fear and how to overcome it?
• How to become so strong that we are able to achieve things of this world?
• What is the method to overcome fear?
• Can fear be won overcome?

On faith and fear!

On faith and fear!



Fear and faith - both most used words by a sadhak especially and both equally found in abundance in the same person. 

It's just that when there is "fear" in mind, there is no "faith" in heart

and when there is "faith in heart" there is "no fear in mind".

They both don't and can't co-exist.

Either fear is or faith is!


When is there fear?

When we think with our mind or intelligence,

when we analyse 

when we try to find answers with our assumed logic (i said "assumed" like I did this xyz pooja/sadhan I should be given this result etc....)


When and how can I develop faith? 


When I BELIEVE HIS  intelligence to be more than mine and hence trust his timing (of giving ) and decisions

when I don't compare with others

when I stop living in my head and stop over thinking

when I stop being "adamant" about running my life as per my "plan" and that doesn't seem to fall in place

when I stop saying "Yes, many small things did happen in my life but...." - i.e., all the things /wish that were fulfilled in past is written off as small things and the wish that is yet to come true is laid as a condition to prove "greatness of Reiki" to develop trust in it or Guru or God....(how conveniently manipulative, dissatisfied and ungrateful soul would that be!)


                                    

When we feed our fear with our unnecessary imagination it becomes big and frightful - and that is the cause of our pain - not the wish coming true or not!

                                       

Like wise, when we feed our faith it becomes strong and forms basis of our well being - physical, mental, spiritual and for our peaceful existence. 

No amount of "wish fulfillment" would develop that faith if our attitude is faulty!

                                        

No Reiki/Guru/God fulfilling our wish and performing "that miracle" would develop that faith!

                                               

Let us work towards building our faith stronger than our fear!

Let us work on building our character right!

#faith, destiny and fate, on attitude, beingness, ask and it shall be given, abundance, acceptance, miracles, 

also reads :

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=miracles

Fear of disease

Fear of disease

Fear of disease is much greater enemy than the disease by itself!

Fear of disease kills us much before disease does! If you want to be safe from ‘any’ disease then first kill the fear that surrounds that disease. We all are equipped to fight and win over any disease. It is the ‘fear’ that weakens our immune system. 

And that in turn lets the disease take over our body and us! Hence, win your fear.

Heal your fear and overcome it. Because beyond fear lies our victory – our freedom from disease!

# on fear, disease, death, freedom from disease, destiny, choices, character, attitude.

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=fear+of+death

Questions answered :

• How do we deal with diseases that engulf the society at large!
• How to and what to heal in times of facing a possibility of living or getting one disease?

On happiness, love and life.......

 

On happiness, love and life.......

Where fear is, love is not.

Where love is not, happiness is not.

Where happiness and love is not, peace is not.

Where there is no peace, there is  no harmony.

Where there is no harmony or balance, there is fear.

Where there is fear, love is not.....

Meaning only when fear ceases will we experience perfect happiness and perfect love.

Many say 'in love there is fear' WRONG! If there is fear it is not love, it is attachment. And where there is attachment, there is fear. And from it comes anger, irritation, expectations, conditions, sleeplessness, fights, frustrations and what not! 

So use every technique taught to you to overcome fear.

Whenever a situation arises, fear pops up. Don't think situation is responsible for the fear. NO. Situation is just a mirror reflection what we are made up of! So don't work on easing the situation. Work on fear. That way by the time situation is addressed, we would have come out of it as a stronger person than before. Then that situation was good. It served its purpose and we used that opportunity to better ourselves.

Know this. Understand this. And work on transcending the fear. Overcome fear and you have won it all!

Then to win the riches of the world is child's game.

previous posts on similar topic: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=hate

Questions addressed :

• How to heal my fear?
• "Tell me how to heal my situation. If my situation becomes conducive to me i'll no longer be afraid" .
• "He has so hurt me that i ended up hating him. This is his fault isn't that i have become so bitter?"
• How can I find love in my life?
• Why can't i experience love in my life?
• This hate in me is killing me. Help me to overcome it....

Points to be understood :

• Choose love over fear always. It is not easy. It doesn't happen overnight maybe. But keep healing. keep practicing and lo! one day it becomes your nature and you no longer need even try doing it...you live it effortlessly...
• As long as you hate yourself you can't love anything and anyone. Look within. Find why you hate yourself. Find where your hatred for self is coming from. Then address it. Heal it. Face it. Accept it for the start.
• Work on loving yourself and loving life becomes easy.
• Love yourself and living life becomes effortless.
• All healing is just about loving self. 
• Loving self doesn't mean 'demanding things of the world' for self. 
• As you learn to love yourself bit by bit, miracles keep happening more and more in your life. 

Wow moment : 

Listened to song of yesteryears......simply wow!

Question time :

What do you mean when you say "Happy Guru pournami " ?

Fear

Fear

Fear – How to benefit out of it?

Read on fear in previous posts to get clarity of thought on this subject and then continue reading this article "https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=fear  

Now we all know the symptoms of fear. They are most commonly experienced as :

Palpitations and perspiration

Anxiety

Knotty feeling in the stomach

Loose motions

Restlessness

Insomnia

Excessive thirst

Anger

Confusion, irritation, shouting etc

Weakness in knees, legs and unable to stand or walk

Heaviness in chest and chest region

Headache and feeling of head reeling

(did I miss any other symptom?)

These symptoms most of us have felt one time or the other and we can recognize them as so now!

But how do we address this feeling?

By facing the situation that brings out this feeling in us… Yes – only by facing the situation again and again will we be able to free ourselves from such fear. The one who heals to avoid a situation is working on ‘plastic surgery’ correction. The work is done but the root cause still exits. So instead face the fear. Yes, it is frightening and it sucks our energy completely from us.

contd....

Points to consider :

Why fear?

How to overcome fear?

#fear, overcome fear, destiny, trust, faith, pity, pain and suffering

Sadhan on sunsets

 Contd....

Sadhan on sunsets

Sun did set even though we couldn’t see. We didn’t see it happen. And yet, we know it did happen. Why can’t we take this data to use to talk to our ‘so called logical mind’? If Sun does set though we didn’t see, will not happening of our life happen for sure though we can’t see them happen for now! (Hamare samaj mein nahin aane par bhi kya jo hona hai wo ho nahi saktha?)

We all have to play our part – fully and honestly. And the ‘right picture’ will emerge in the future at right time. Our worries and fear of future is based on the fact that we are not able to see ‘the future’. The questions is do we need to? Just as Sun sets though we didn’t and couldn’t see, can’t we trust Reiki, God or Universe to secure our future? Think about it!

Our worry and fear is kept alive only thanks to our baseless assumptions and imaginations. Look back at your past worries and fear. How many became true as you imagined? When you did Reiki, did not your past shape out right?

Take any incident from your past. You worried about it. You were depressed. You feared about the outcome. But you kept doing Reiki. And when the event happened, you were happy. Your fears didn’t come true! You walked past that time. So you will this time too. Just be healing yourself. Work on your worries and your fears. Address them. Question them. Look into them. Heal them. Just don’t support them with your justifications. And do Reiki for your intentions. Before long, you’ll be out of this time too! Remember, “This too shall pass!”

Contd....

# sunsets and sunrises, on little joys of life, miracles of life, wow moments, everything happens for good, abundance, life as it is, awareness, mindfulness, being available to the miracles of life, happiness, state of mind, 

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=we+have+a+park+in+our+vicinity%2Fneighbourhood

Points to understand :

• We fear based on assumptions. We live in our head and our imagination runs wild. Work on that. 
• Question your fear. Question the basis of your fear.
• We get angry when we fear because we support our fear and justify our fear.
• Don't fight the battle of fear. Fear is not your friend. IT IS your enemy! Know this and fight against it.
• Address fear with various techniques known to you through various classes. Do pranayamam if you can't do re-birth for any reason. Do anulom vilom, bhasrika and deep breathing. This will also address your BP and sugar problems. Your weight too will reduce. Your digestion problem is also healed. So many benefits with just one technique. 
• Fear will not go away if situation becomes 'as you want it to be'. Remember that! We presume so and become adamant that things should go as per our wish. NO! This is not the case. Fear stays with us - and comes to the forefront as and when the situation comes up.