Becoming eligible for grace – further to clarification!

 

Becoming eligible for grace – further to clarification! 

Swathi, read your comment https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2021/01/on-receiving-grace_31.html?showComment=1699510916398 and also read your comments in link https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=Becoming+eligible+for+grace+%E2%80%93+clarification%21+…

Now, is the answer to question asked in https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=Becoming+eligible+for+grace+%E2%80%93+clarification%21  same as before? If not, what is your answer now? Give reasons for your answer.

This is open to one and all! Why no one has answered this question?

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Becoming eligible for grace – clarification!

 

Becoming eligible for grace – clarification! 

Nivedita – you can follow the first week’s sadhan from the blog  …https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/09/sadhan-zone-2023.html 

But, there are conditions to that……

You’ll not be eligible for “grace healings” till the completion of this sadhan!!!

Now, I ask others – this is your question time and ALL need to answer this. This is a compulsory question. There is no right or wrong answer to this question. So relax and answer. Just give it a thought. Don’t answer blindly. Take time and answer in 3-4 days.

How many of you think it is the right “Condition” laid to Nivedita who wants to join the “sadhan zone 2023” ?

If you think it is right, then what is the reason behind that?

If no, then why should she be eligible for grace?

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Becoming eligible for grace

 

Becoming eligible for grace – By sharing their experiences/insights/understandings/answering the questions posed!

Mona, Bhagya rekha, Swathi , Kshitija  “ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/11/on-our-journey-made-so-far.html?showComment=1700206548679 " have exhibited their resolve to walk the path. And in doing so, they have become eligible for grace healings for one week ...

They are addressing the first obstacles in every sadhak’s path!

They have become more aware of their weaknesses.

They have accepted them and hence became powerful over them. Only when we accept we have a disease, weakness or a problem,  would we be able to address it! So, you see, acceptance is a big step! And they are doing it – again and again in various issues. Wow! For that!

They are not just stating and trying to get away saying “maam, I am ashamed/feeling guilty/don’t know what to do and so on”. They are addressing it every day of their life. They are fighting an on-going battle with these issues day-in-and day-out! And for that, a big salute to you all!

They are appreciating themselves in little ways!

They are falling in love with self!

They are celebrating life – in moments and in little ways! Joys and celebrations are always about little moments only!!!

They are opening up their hearts to various possibilities in relationships and life opportunities.

They are embracing life!

They are learning to live life – they are living! They are laughing – a genuine laugh and they are spreading joy around them!

And what else did I miss from their comments??!! Fill me and others on that!!!

One clarification: And yes, when they stop walking this path, they like everyone else will lose the "eligibility" to receive grace! Not a warning - just the fyi for all those who are feeling bad that only these are receiving the "healings through grace". Many desire and feel entitled to receive "grace". But, just desiring or demanding it doesn't make them eligible to receive. Me sending Reiki to anyone is MY CHOICE.

It is not my duty 

or 

a compulsion 

or my need 

or not that I owe any of you this healing! Remember that!

I am not on your pay-roll nor do I owe you anything! Anyone can dream or expect anything from me. That doesn't mean I AM TO GIVE THEM THAT! EVER!!!

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also read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=My+Guru+%E2%80%93+on+intent+and+travelling%21

Clarification /understanding received through these exercises - Becoming eligible for grace

 

Clarification /understanding received through these exercises - Becoming eligible for grace

There must be others too in this list, but I am explaining by taking just Swathi and Kshitija as the case study. Read the given link to understand both cases better: For Kshitija read:  “https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/11/reflections-on-addressing-simple-issue_01314396990.html?showComment=1700368102428 

and for Swathi read: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2023/09/sadhan-zone-2023.html?showComment=1698675599445

Kshitija – as you can see,

Overcame over a few of her hesitations like being in the crowd. That caused her loss of enjoyment with her relatives’ closeness, warmth and company over the years. Now, she enjoyed the same.

Her apprehension about people’s opinion about her stopped her from going out to family functions. Now she could go and also enjoy the same.

She has become more respectful towards her body. That reflects in the way she is eating right and her food choices.

Being disciplined is a very important attitude. But it is rarely found in people. Because of all the healing that she is undergoing and various sadhan techniques that she is using, she is able to do normal and essential lifestyle changes that are beneficial for her health and mental well-being in the long run viz., walking, exercise etc.

So you see, sadhan doesn’t mean just getting what we desire. It doesn’t mean we GET SOMETHING IN RETURN ALWAYS!  The biggest benefit of sadhan is losing what we have which is detrimental for our well-being.It reflects in our change of life style, attitudes, habits and thereby bringing joy, happiness and well-being in our life.

Take Swathi next. You can read her journey of every week. This week, she fell back on her sadhan. And you can see her old attitudes coming to the front. That is the price we pay for our negligence of sadhan. Our old habits, lifestyle (harmful for us) and mental weakness take over us. And then it becomes once more, difficult to overcome them. The effort we put again seems monumental.

So, keep being in sadhan. You may not increase it. But, don’t decrease it. You have to pay “a very heavy price” for it. Don’t expect “MAAM TO WORK OUT MIRACLES FOR YOU THEN”. It doesn’t work that way…..

Hope we have learnt the RIGHT LESSONS from other’s flaws too!

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for no valid reason wished to share this old post with you: https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2009/06/reiki-meet-28-06-2009.html so many miracles of that meet peeped from memory box....