On comments and healings

On comments and healing

further to comment https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2013/11/situation-is-neither-good-or-bad_20.html?showComment=1589998781634#c1510624441817351160 how about you people give your understanding and then i'll if need be.......

regarding healings that we have been doing during lockdown - tomorrow is 29th May the day lockdown was to be removed.....and we had decided to continue our group healings till then.....since most of the lockdown is already removed our group healings session also come to an end .........

those who are still going to be at home, if you still wish to do these healings, go ahead and continue doing......

don't think it is 'holiday' period for you......the real problem is right now.......so be with healing........find excuses to do healing.......not go back to your mundane routine..........

later i don't want to hear comments like " but it is so frightening...isn't it.? " etc.....

Me, My Guru – On death and healing

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Me, My Guru – On death and healing

But she continued her explanation unaware of my thought process. “How many times your wish didn’t come true and yet on a later day you thanked Reiki for the same?”

That shows how we ask our wishes even without knowing if it is for our good or not. Reiki doesn’t fulfill a wish for various reasons. Sometimes it’s just that the time is not right. Other times, it is because it is not right for us. Sometimes, it is even protecting us against some possible event! That way Reiki knows and can see beyond time and see if a certain wish is for our good or not! It thus gives us what is good for us, when it is good for us” she concluded.

“So now did you understand why and how healing helps to heal the Earth?” I asked Vaishnav.

“No, not really...But I understand that if we heal some good is sure to come out of it” replied Vaishnav.

We all laughed.

Actually most of us didn’t understand it either. But we have seen the miracles of healing on so many occasions that we had stopped questioning it now. We knew it worked. Maybe our understanding didn’t increase to the level of understanding Reiki’s working. But our trust surely had increased over the years. And based on that we kept healing and seeing the way it shaped us and our lives. For now that much of knowledge seemed more than enough. 

We sat to do Earth healing silently…….

Concluded..........

Read previous post to know on how to handle expectations https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=the+traveller+and+the+river 

Some thinking to do - 

Who is the river? 

Who is the traveler? 

What does the story tell you? 

What are the various events in it and how do you relate them to your life and its situations? 

Who are these people?

Don't just answer these questions like a 5th grade student.......questions are given as a indication of how we are to process the information and the story here. Understand it completely and give the complete picture of your understanding. That's how you answer these stories......not just answer to a question asked......think like a Phd student and answer like one......

Points to be understood :

• Expectations, desire and belief if understood right and applied right can become our strengths. If misplaced they can create havoc in ourselves and our life.
• They can charge us with energy enough to win the world.
• They have power to drive us crazy and in turn drive people away from our life.
• If your expectation is already driving you crazy, making you restless then look around you. Do you see smiling faces looking at you? Do you have people who will stand by you or wanting to spend every minute available to them to be with you? If answer is no for even one of the above question, then sit and meditate on your expectation. Know its nature. Know how it is sending wrong vibrations that is sending away good things and right things from happening in your life.
• If the energy you are sending is not right, how many ever people who invite or find coming into your life, your life will always be a mess. 
• Change in the name of the person or the name of the relationship will not and can not give you that 'elusive' happiness you are looking for if you can't change the energy of expectation you are generating.
• No body need punish you for who you are! 
• We are curse unto ourselves with the energies that we generate!
• We are blessing unto ourselves with the energies that we generate!
• Which one are you?

Questions answered :

What are the questions that are answered in this entire post? 

Read the whole topic post again in one go. Sit in meditation. Calmly go through the post and see how many of your issues have found answers in this post....

share if you care.......

Me, My Guru – On death and healing

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Me, My Guru – On death and healing

Expectation in our life is based on our limited understanding of life, Universe, good and bad etc etc and with our limited knowledge of so many areas of healing and the healed. We suffer with our ego, hurt, frustrations, anxiety and fear.

Our definition of right and wrong is based on our limited vision of time and space……can I see beyond time? Can I see the cause and effect of any event over the period of time?

This way the basis of expectation itself is at fault. But I blame master/Reiki or God for not living up to my expectation and say “how can I trust if He has failed again?” she stopped as if lost in some thoughts.

“I didn’t understand this space and time concept. What do you mean when you said I can’t see beyond time? What is the cause and effect that I am blind to?” asked Vaishnav clearly irritated.

Some students at some time were like him. - Totally insensitive to her pain and suffering. They didn’t bother about her needs; they didn’t take ‘her hurt’ into account. They just ‘expected’ her to fill in their needs. They felt it was t heir right to expect from her, to live up to their demands seemed to be her duty to them. They ‘expected’ this of her and said “As a Guru is she not supposed to do all this?” This question talked about their condition on which her role as a Guru rested. Any deviation from that expectation and condition of theirs and lo! She fell from their pedestal. They got angry, irritated and what not!

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Also read previous post for further clarification : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=neetu+singh 

Read the related post to know about Faith https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=umbrella

Questions answered : 

• Why we can't trust even when the other person is being good and selfless towards us?
• Why can't we appreciate, validate or be grateful for all that we have in life?
• Why do we feel empty inspite of having many things that we asked for and many more that we didn't even ask for in our life?
• Is the emptiness sure to go away if our 'present condition' of suffering gets addressed our way?

Point to be understood :

• Happiness and peace are the state of mind.
• Gratitude is the quality of our persona that takes us to Happy state of mind.
• Conditions that we lay on our expectations are the black hole that empties the abundance in our life. It sucks all our energies. It makes us devils from within. It becomes the breeding ground of jealousy, stupidity, fear, illogical reasoning, lack of clarity, misconstrued understandings, frustrations and what not........the list goes on. Now imagine what 'hell' you have created for yourself with one simple 'expectation' from just couple of people in your life?
• Is it worth it? 
• Understand your pain completely and then take a decision on how to move about in your life......
• choose wisely for it will decide your future too.........
• Never underestimate the power and need of healing........you don't know what treasures it can give you till you have received it with your perseverance of healing.

Me, My Guru – On death and healing

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Me, My Guru – On death and healing

May be that’s why our Guru always said “Don’t judge for you shall be judged!” Yes, it was so easy to see others short comings but we were oblivious to our own! – Always! And again that’s why she kept repeating “Look within! Know thyself!” Today all those words made sense. I decided to look within. Today I decided to meditate.

But she was doing her job her way. She even answered this question “we have power and choice to sit and heal. How to heal that person or situation is not what we can decide on. That is for Reiki or God to decide. We can only work as his tools.

The problem with our understanding in healing and of healing is that we expect results as per our conditioning of thoughts and beliefs. We expect results as per our needs and wants too! We condition results of our healing that way! No doubt when it doesn’t work or go that way or our way we think healing has failed! And thus put the blame of this ‘failure’ as a reason for our lack of trust. But what was wrong was not healing. What failed actually was our ‘expectation’. 

Our expectation was at fault and yet we can’t or don’t see it. Not because we can’t see it, but because we don’t want to see it that way. If we see it as a failure or mistake with our expectation, then we have to address our expectation. That means healing it. That is exactly what we have been avoiding to do all these years. And hence one expectation after another not met became the cause of our pain and suffering. And we thought and wanted to believe that ‘our expectations not being met’ was the cause of our pain and suffering. And so we looked around to find the ‘culprit’ who was responsible for the ‘expectation’ not being met and found him guilty. We called him names. We said he broke our trust. We felt cheated. We broke down. And always the ‘culprit’ was the other person in our life – be it our spouse, kid, relative, job, master or even God! Never was it our expectation! What an irony! 

We searched far and wide to find a solution for the problem to be fixed except where the problem was – within us! And so, we remained ever so dissatisfied, sad, cheated, frustrated, unhappy and full of anger. 

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(How do I highlight in this post and what do I highlight? Every single word speaks volumes and stresses the point that needs to be understood, accepted, applied, healed and finally be used to transform self and transcend it......?)

# let go, expectations, everything is there, this moment is perfect, life is lived when not conditioned, challenges of life, relationships, 

also read to see how we try to fix the problem in the wrong place https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=tora+man+darpan+kahlaaye  

Questions addressed:

• How to address the pain that we experience because of our expectations from the life?
• Is expecting others to live up to our expectation the sign of our weakness?

Points to be understood :

• As long as we justify our expectations as 'but he is supposed to be like this na..etc' you will suffer. Remember that!
• The day you accept your expectation and the condition that it is to be met is the cause of your suffering, nothing will change your life. 
• look back at your life - you wanted to pass an exam and you suffered all through that phase. It was fulfilled and then came job tension. You suffered wanting job. Then when you got it you said it was not up to the mark. Your boss was not good. Your salary was not good enough. You suffered your job too.....and then you said if only I am married I'll be happy. Then you got married and you still are suffering. And you have one valid candidate to push the blame on - husband and mil is bonus for you! The list continues.....look within. Look into the quality of your expectation and the conditions that you put there. Happiness is not something you can put conditions on to experience. 
• One who defines happiness and contentment as 'getting what he wants' is on the road of suffering and being pain to others too. He is working for his hell. He is walking hell. He is creating hell for others too in his life. No doubt he is without or hardly any close associate/friend with whom he can share his thoughts even........
• Your loneliness reflects your level of 'expectation' in your life......beware of this warning sign!
• People are not bad for running away from you. You are sending them away from yourself.

Beautiful Universal Truth :

What you are now is your choice. But your potential is something that you haven't tapped yet. That potential is something you should aim for, work for. Then sky is the limit for you and your desires. 

Don't be harsh on yourself. Don't limit yourself with the present thoughts.

Don't hanker on the small toys and events of your life.

You are heir apparent to the kingdom of heaven. Why live like a beggar?

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=Bhagyanagar

Me, My Guru – On death and healing

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Me, My Guru – On death and healing

                                          

Trembling with fear and almost sure of the consequence he went to the palace of King of Kashi. He chanted the name of ‘Narayana’ in the ears of just born prince of Kashi. To the surprise of everyone present there and Sage Narada, the kid sat up and started talking “Salutations of you, oh Divine Sage Narada!” Thank you for your grace and kind act of reciting Narayana mantra in my ears when I was a worm. I died and was born as butterfly. Again you recited Narayana mantra and I died again to be born as deer. Then I died as deer to be born a calf. I died as calf to be born a human prince. Did you still not understand the power of Narayana mantra? The birth as human is got after 86,000 janmas in various lower life forms. And I got it so effortlessly and so fast, all thanks to you”.

Narada was stunned beyond words. With tears rolling down his cheeks he ran towards Vaikuntam – the abode of Krishna. He fell on his feet and thanked him for the experience and for giving him a life that could recite the sweet name of Narayana so many times” she concluded with a smile.

There was silence that we wanted to drink.

“Does that mean people are dying because we are chanting?” asked Vaishnav.

We all laughed. Some people asked doubts that only reflect their stupidity. Person’s understanding capacity reflect in his questions clearly. And his perception, in his complaints! 

How stupid we all were to think we can hide our ‘real self’ for long! No! it came out in such instances. Here we could see his level of understanding or should I say misunderstanding? But then, so did others see ours which we were not aware of in such situations and questions. Isn’t it?

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# miracles, healing and its effect, prayers answered, death and healing, expectations from healing and prayers,

also read previous posts : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=seventy+feet+high 

(This is one of my personal favourites as it is simple, short and yet profound story on faith. If understood in all its layers it can be applied every where in our life and lo! our life becomes one hell of 'happening, beautiful, purposeful and joyful'. If understood is the condition though - not if argued....)

Points to be understood :

• Isn't it funny that being a speck we wish to gauge the greatness of the Ocean?
• To correct a 10th class paper don't I at least need to have passed 10th class? And logic says I should be more than a just 10th class holder to correct that paper...isn't it?
• So, by telling Universe, Reiki and God how to run my this world am I saying I know more than HIM?
• If I know more about my needs and about myself and God doesn't know anything better then why go to Him at all? 
• Not knowing that we don't know is the biggest curse of our life!

Questions answered : You tell me what questions of yours have been answered here?

Life Facts :

Yesterday, I made vadiyalu (Indian fryums) ....i was sweating thanks to the hot sun and the heat which is unbearable.........but i wasn't complaining.....today i didn't do anything and I was making comments on the heat and the unbearable aspect of 'this summer'.

It was then that someone reminded that yesterday I was under sun for so long and then in front of the gas burner making vadiyalu and i wasn't complaining. Today I was sitting under the fan and complaining non-stop. They laughed at me!

It was then it stuck me. When we are otherwise engaged in some activity which is dear to us, the facts of life don't have an effect on us (here it being sun and heat). But when we have free time, our mind goes on a 'joy trip of self-pity, fault finding, suffering and complaining'.

Situation was not the cause of my complaint or suffering. I didn't have a 'valid purpose' in my life and so i looked for it in all and sundry. And since I didn't know to love all that was in my life or all that i could do, i ended up crying about 'something' that was missing in life. 

Now I hated this summer and its heat more than ever for giving me this realization. It took away my reason to complain. 

Me, My Guru – On death and healing

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Me, My Guru – On death and healing

Krishna said “I can’t explain but can give you an experience that shows what it is”.

Narada agreed to have that experience. Krishna showed him a worm wriggling in the mud and asked him to chant “Narayana” thrice in its ears. Narada did accordingly. The worm died immediately. Narada came back confused and asked “Is that all?” Krishna showed a butterfly and asked Narada to repeat the exercise. Nadara did so. The butterfly died. Narada was taken aback.

Now Krishna showed him a deer and asked him to do the same with the deer. Narada did so reluctantly. As he expected the deer died immediately. Now he was a bit irritated too along with being confused and frightened.

“Why are you killing everyone instead of explaining in simple language to me?” he asked Krishna.

Krishna smiled and showed him a calf now. But Narada said “I can’t kill a calf now. That would be a huge sin”.

But on Krishna’s insistence and lots of reluctance he repeated the exercise of reciting the name of Narayana thrice in its ears. The calf too died!

Narada was shaking with fear now. “You are turning me into a murderer. I was just a mischief maker till now, but now…why are you doing this to me?”

Krishna replied with a smile “for one last time go to the palace of King of Kashi. He’s blessed with a son. Go and chant my name in the ears of that young prince”. So saying, he left for Vaikuntam**.

*Kashi – also called Benaras is a very holy place in India. It is the oldest inhabited city in the India.

**Vaikuntam – place of abode of Lord Krishna or Narayana

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# Bhagavatam, Krishna and Narada, Healing and its effects, effect of chanting Lord's name, expectations, result, conditions, death, life 

Points to be understood : 

• Our prayers are always answered - just when and how is beyond our understanding sometimes nay many times. But just because we don't understand doesn't mean God is wrong.
• Have we looked into our expectations to know their nature and their control over our sanity and behaviour?
• Do we know how our expectations are driving us crazy? And all we are doing is going around like drunken monkeys biting everyone in our way and crying that it is because our expectation is not met.
• Just sit and meditate on your expectations. You will be surprised how easy it would be do away with your pain and suffering.
• In our ignorance we think fulfillment of our expectation will put an end to our suffering and pain when it is far from Truth!
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Questions addressed :

• Why should I work on myself if and when my expectations are not met by people and life situations in my life?
• What is the relation between sense organs and our expectations?
• What is the relation between our expectations and our sufferings?
• How to put an end to our sufferings?

also read previous posts for further clarification on this topic  : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=one+sense+organ