On basis of relationship!

 

On basis of relationship!

The relationship that one has with oneself is the basis of all other relationships in his life!

So, take stock of your relationship with self!

Get to know how you deal with yourself!

If one can't be comfortable with oneself, how can he be comfortable with others - any other person in life?

think about it!!

Milestone of posts - 2022

 

Milestone of posts - 2022 - again!

Further to Milestone of posts - 2022 we have crossed the 174th milestone too ....as of now we have crossed 179 posts....

we have crossed two milestones that of two previous years that of 2009 and 2019....

kudos to us - celebrate it your way - next milestone is 200 - a doable target - just 23 more posts - also possible by this month end - God willing though - let's keep working - let's keep marching...

appreciate you all for keeping this 'fire of gnana yagna' going by your regular participation through comments.....God bless you for that....

Problems – Me, My Guru

 

Continued.....

Problems – Me, My Guru

“Will it go away” I asked hopefully.

“Not necessarily always. But, it will give you strength and better perspective to address the problem. You will be better equipped to face the situation. Your clarity will improve. You will find ways to accomplish the task undertaken. Don’t ask, just keep healing. Each unto his own! Every one’s experience is different and individual. It depends on the individual’s various facts – so we can’t compare between two identical (supposedly) situations” saying so she left us for the day.

And we were left with the path to walk upon – as ever!

Concluded.....

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# problems and solutions, pain and suffering, healing, finding solutions, mindfulness, awareness, life is beautiful, ups and downs of life, facts of life, challenges of life, life, 

Read also : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=+++++Me%2C+My+Guru+%E2%80%93+On+Hindrances+in+problem+solving 

Question time :

Instead of writing lengthy posts I am writing smaller ones. Hope it was useful and was the need of the hour for some of you....

Hope it benefitted you as you want them to........

share if you care....

Problems - Me, My Guru

 

Problems – Me, My Guru

“Guruji, how do I address my problems? They never seem to go away for good!” asked one of us.

“Sometimes, all that you need to do to address the problem is ignoring it. Look at the problem not as part of it but as an outsider. You’ll get a better perspective and the right one many times. Shift the position from which you look at the problem, you see the solution right away.

Other times, you just have to understand it. Sit on the problem. Meditate on it. Know its cause and the effect gets healed on its own” replied our Guru.

“But what if it doesn’t go even then” asked another student. He surely had tried the above given solutions. He didn’t find a solution in them. It was obvious.

“Then sit to heal as a healer” she replied with a smile.

“Will it go away” I asked hopefully.

Continued.....

# problems and solutions, pain and suffering, healing, finding solutions, mindfulness, awareness, life is beautiful, ups and downs of life, facts of life, challenges of life, life, 

Read also : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=Me%2C+my+Guru+%E2%80%93+on+healing+servants%2C+maids+and+helpers 

Question time :

Share your story of problem solving with others to motivate them, show them the way and to guide them find their path.....

Do unto others as you would want others to do unto you....

Today!

 

Today!

Today is just not an another day!

Today is just not the same old day!

Today is not the continuation of yesterday...

Today is the NEW DAY.

Today is the day that givesyou one more opportunity to start afresh.

Today is given to you - again - so that you do things your way...

Today you have one more chance to rewrite your destiny...

Today is the day you can decide to behave the way you choose...

Today you can decide to smile through the day....

Today you can make it a memorable day...

Today is just one more day - today is the possibility given to you - once more!

# living in the moment, mindfulness, now and here, awareness, life, beauty of life, abundance in life, living, 

also read : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=living+in+the+moment 

On peace of mind – Me, My Guru

On peace of mind – Me, My Guru

“Guruji, I just want to have my ‘peace of mind’ intact. Help me with that” asked someone.

All of us were glad he asked that question. That was not just his question. It was ‘the question’ of the lot in general!

“Then stop thinking about things happened in the past. Stop worrying about future too! Stop reliving others’ actions and words.” Replied our Guruji.

“Then what else is there to do Guruji?” asked him confused and a wee bit irritated.

“Then when your mind is free of all this chatter, LIVE! That is when you live YOUR LIFE actually. Not deciding about what others should or shouldn’t do or say – but actually living your life for once. Use techniques taught to you to do the same. Then not only will you be peaceful but happy too! You will not need to go anywhere. You wouldn’t have to wait for someone to come in our life or go away from your life. You will realize that you are happy inspite of all these people in your life. Own up your life! Seize your life for what it has to offer you. Don’t get others too much into your life” so saying our Guru.

We didn’t need much explanation today. She has said a lot on these topics all along. We just needed a reminder today. We got it. We set out to apply it. We got results when we did in past. We are sure to get one this time too. It was just a matter of will and choice. We would win this time too. She believed in us. We believed in her belief on us. We couldn’t go wrong today!

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# peace of mind, disturbed mind, mindfulness, living in the moment, imagination the future, living in the past pain, on moving on, being happy and peaceful, seize your life, Me, my Guru - on peace

reads suggested from previous post : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/05/on-love-and-ego.html 

On being balanced – Me, My Guruji

 

On being balanced – Me, My Guruji

“Guruji, I want to be peaceful and enjoying life. But the people in my life tear me apart.  I get so angry at so many things they say and do. How to correct them? Because, my happiness and peace of mind is dependent on them.”

“If someone can easily anger you, then it is so, because you are off balance with yourself. How can you heal or correct others when you yourself are not balanced? How can healing others be easy when the mind and body within your reach is not ‘listening to you’?” asked our Guruji.  

True! It was such a big world out there. And if I go correcting and healing every one of their attitudes, then even if I take 100 janmas (lives), it may not be enough!!?

Our Guru said it so simply. The one within my reach was the ONLY AREA I need to correct and be in control of. The rest didn’t matter when this happened.

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# being balanced, centre - finding it, situation is real suffering is optional, being in control of our emotions, reason over emotions, 

also read previous post on being balanced : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=empty+boat 

Points to ponder : 

Sometimes, all it takes to lose balance is a simple phone call. 

A word heard is enough to drive us nuts. Take a moment to look at your emotions. Is it worth suffering so much over a word heard? 

Is it worth losing our peace of mind over someone's actions? 

Is our happiness not precious to us? 

Are we choosing brooding over the other person's actions and words over our peace of mind? Why? Think and meditate on the same!

Answer will surprise you. It will heal you. It will release you from 'that pain' for sure!

Meditate and be free from this pain.

You owe yourself this peace and happiness.....