Grace healings for Swathi

 

Grace healings for Swathi

 

Swathi “ https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2026/02/sadhan-for-march-2026.html?showComment=1775007613790" – for giving the feedback religiously in spite of being irregular in her sadhan….

Not giving excuses for not being in sadhan.

For owning it up.

For getting back to sadhan.

For giving the feedback – just feedback – honest, naked truth about it. People usually want to buy favours or GOOD NAME and come back with feedback only when they can PROJECT A GOOD IMAGE. But, SHOWING UP however one is, in all sincerity, honesty and without any beating around the bush – well that by itself is a wonderful quality – so rare to go!

I appreciate this nature especially when she exhibits it – again and again….

You will receive reiki once a week every week of this month – hope that is good enough of incentive to be regular in sadhan!

Universe - not all times only benefits the one who is in sadhan but the one who is honest too!

God bless you!

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Sadhan for November 2025

 

Sadhan for November 2025

1.    Wear “RED” for this month – at least 2-3 times a week.

2.     Do rebirth meditation with “HURT” at least 2-3 times a week.

3.     Do homam and vaastu healing at least 2-3 times a week.

4.     Let’s practise “Being in the NOW”. While you bathe, pour 1^st and last mug with awareness daily!  Similarly, practise mindfulness doing any of the daily chores – 3 times per day.

5.     Do hands-on for “heart chakra” for 15 mts daily – 5 times a week. Those who do full body regularly, even you do 15mts for heart and remaining as ever. Those who don’t/can’t do full body, do at least heart chakra this month.

6. 
    Write in your journal “Gratitude for the day” – write incidents that you are grateful for, for that day. If you don’t have any, write old ones, but every day, do write 3 things you are grateful for.

7.     Those who want to overcome laziness, ego, selfishness and similar nature, do share things you are grateful for in the comments section – daily!

 

 Clarification:

RED : all shades of it can be worn!

DO NOT GO ON A BUYING SPREE WITH THIS AS AN EXCUSE.

You can wear the same dress/saree again and again too.

Men – if you don’t wear red, then surround yourself with red in as many ways as possible. Eat beetroot for eg. Use your imagination.

Sadhan for October 2025

 

Sadhan for October 2025

This month let the sadhan be a little different.

1.     Wear “green” dress at least 2-3 times per week.

2.     Do re-birth meditation with “sadness” at least 2 times a week.

3.     Do earth healing 2 times a week.

4.     Last month we cleaned the house. Any old article lying around in the house which is of no use to you – give away or sell it off. Take away at least one such item per week.

5.     Give away old and unused dresses to people who want it.

6.     Daily sit for 5 mts and list out things that worked out for you thanks to healings.

7.     You can also list out healings that happened or wishes fulfilled – big or small – just 5 mts a day. You can time it. If laziness takes over you, then you can even repeat the same miracle/desire fulfilled every single day. Just remember to thank Reiki or God after listing every wish fulfilled. “Thankyou REIKI OR GOD for fulfilling this wish of mine”

8.     Give minimum of three packets of food this month. Those who can’t cook, just give away a couple of fruits of your choice to the beggars/rag pickers.

9.     “You receive as much as you give”.

This is the month of receiving “Ma Lakshmi” in our lives. Let’s prepare enough to receive her. Give enough to receive enough!

Give heartily.

Disclaimer:

Later day, DO NOT COME TO ME AND GIVE ME THE BILL OF HOW MUCH YOU HAVE GIVEN IN CHARITY AND DEMAND RETURNS!

WEAR GREEN doesn't mean you take it as an excuse to go shopping like mad. you need not wear a new dress every day. You can wear the same green dress every time for the entire month. 

Do not let manipulative nature take over you using sadhan as an excuse.

Men who don't wear green can have green around them in any form at least 2-3 times a week. Say, have a plant or cutting of a twig or plant in a vase in your hall/table. 

You can have green cover on any item of your house/office. 

Use your imagination. It is all about being surrounded by green colour, that's all!

 

May this deepavali light up your life and burn away your ignorance and stupidity!

How some people find time for everything and others don't have time even for the basic works to be done?

 

How some people find time for everything and others don't have time even for the basic works to be done?

Further to query/comment of Swathi https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2025/08/how-when-and-why-grace-is-received-and.html?showComment=1756921323923#c2242126754222443877 

Read the couple of links given –  https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/10/clarification-to-other-wannabe-bloggers.html 

and 

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2016/11/thank-you.html 

and

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/09/on-feedback.html 

and

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2015/08/few-questions-asked-and-addressed.html

they explain a few points like

a.    How I find it possible to write, be in sadhan and doing many other things

b.     What drives me to write

c.      One attitude /nature that gives strength to all that you want to do or have to do

Read them clearly, slowly and without having that running commentary in your little head of yours. Then, you will see the answers.

The same answers can be applied for all the situations, work and things to be done in your life.

You will also find reasons and solutions to remove the blocks that stop you from being ‘dependent, regular, dedicated, sincere, romantic (towards work and life in general), and honest in your work ethics).

Hope this clears your doubt/questions…..

I have given link to only short and crisp posts........you will find lots of them where the answer to your question is given....

How, when and why Grace is received and earned?

 

How, when and why Grace is received and earned?

This post is a reply to all those questions, accusations, anger that people have for
such posts - 

"Grace healings for healing the Earth!

Sending Reiki to Swathi and Kshitija for healing the Earth on regular basis. They are showing the gratitude in one of the right ways!"

People just stop at “empty words” of “thank you maam, thank you Guruji, thank you Reiki” and think they are grateful, they have shown gratitude. And not only that they even are arrogant about that. How sad is that??!!

Gratitude is not a word. If it is genuine then it reflects in actions – without fail. People want to get away with empty words. And they suffer the consequences of their “actions” and then they cry at such times.

Imagine your Company says “Thank you” and may even give you a card – a huge one every month in exchange for all your services (job) and sends you home without your pay packet. How grateful and joyous would you be? But, you want the other person to be happy and grateful (to you) with empty words? You want them to do Reiki to you and your desires – stating “But you are a Guru and you SHOULD DO IT MAAM??!!!!”

God SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

Guru SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

Parents SHOULD DO FOR YOU.

And when it comes to you doing anything for them, “but I have a life know maam. When will I get to sleep/take rest? I have to save, how can I pay fees/money for Pooja/gifts?”

You are angry and say “God is egoist for seeking money from us and pooja from us. Why can’t he just give what we desire?”

“Maam is money minded when the time to pay fees comes. Maam is greedy if she asks for long-pending dues. Maam is selfish and what not!” does the same not hold good for you demanding salaries from your Company in exchange for your service?

Then, how come rules are different when it comes to pay for my services?

It is called double standards! And yet, I am the “BAD GUY” here.

God is the bad guy.

Parents are bad when they seek something from you. But, what they did all these years is “but all parents do no maam? And then, they are parents. They are supposed to do for their kids?”

How selfish! How greedy! How manipulative! And yet, you are “good people??”

Wake up to reality.

The day you face yourself honestly is the day your healing ACTUALLY starts! Till then all that you are doing is ‘plastic surgery’. It may serve some purpose but the actual damage is not being addressed.

Wake up. Own up your nature. Look at your intentions. Understand them. First ACCEPT THEM. Then, know them and their reason to be. Sit and meditate.

(DO NOT WRITE A MAIL EXPLAINING HOW GOOD A PERSON YOU ARE)

HEAL, heal and heal yourself – only outgrowing the lower nature is the answer to have that respect for yourself – in your eyes!

Till then, you are only beating around the bush!

Wake up – it’s high time!

Grace can't be demanded.

Grace is not an entitlement!

Grace is not your right!

Grace is not received by acting "victim"

Grace is not received by "crying"!

Grace is earned! Know it and earn it!

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RECIPE TO BE LEADERS!

 

RECIPE TO BE LEADERS!

There is only ONE recipe to be a “Leader” – that of being ready to lay down one’s life for a cause!

No one, absolutely no one (without an exception) can become a leader without being ready to and one who can lay down his life for a cause. No leadership is assigned without this ultimate sacrifice.

All want to be a leader (or a Reiki Master or a Grand Master in our case) and yet no one wants to sacrifice.

Forget about sacrificing one’s life, no one is ready to sacrifice his sleep, his greed, his manipulative nature, desire to be glorified by students and what not.

No one wants to make the necessary sacrifice. And so, no one makes a leader.

We all want to be leaders without making the necessary sacrifice. And the result is zero – nobody bows in front of us, no one listens to us and no one respects us.

A leader is one who is ready to sacrifice his ego and be humble (in real sense not just pretend). But, all want to control others. So, they fail the test when they act as Reiki Masters. They fail as humans. They fail to walk this path.

Correct the essentials and see the miracles happen. Work on self and become worthy of the respect that you so want and are desperate to get. It will happen automatically if you earn it. Don’t be manipulating seeking it.

Wake up and live right!

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# sacrifice, family, relationships, leadership, mentor, self learning, ego, challenges of life, spiritual path, on being spiritual, freedom,

also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2015/03/rama-purushottam.html 

Let go to be peaceful and happy!

 

Let go to be peaceful and happy!

The cause of all evil is our desire to be superior to others and our selfishness!

The cause of all suffering is our desire to have it our way ONLY! The more we let go of our adamant nature the less we suffer!

The more we let go off of our controlling nature, the better is our relationships.

The more we let go off of the demand to have and lead a life “as per our imagination”, less are the  problems we have in life.

We are fixated in our tastes and preferences. Nothing wrong in that – until those very tastes and preferences become so important and big that we consider everything else happening and receiving in our life as “suffering”. Change this perspective and lo! There was never a problem.

And therefore, inspite of you looking to solve a problem you didn’t get a solution and there can be no solution given to a problem that never was!

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# let go, on relationships, happiness, on peace, source of pain and suffering, evil, desire, selfishness, compassion, 

previous post suggested for read - 

to understand why letting go is difficult and what to let go https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/06/the-happy-monkey-short-story-on-letting.html 

why we can't find a solution or an answer when we are troubled https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/07/me-my-guru-on-gaining-clarity-of-thought.html 

what to let go in relationships and how https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/05/on-knowing-self-me-my-guru_6.html

My wow moment of 2025 – Watching the Moonrise and the Sunset at a time!

 

My wow moment of 2025 – Watching the Moonrise and the Sunset at a time!

Yesterday, I was on the terrace just in time to watch our dear Sun set! Splendid! Wow!

And I turned to see the Moonrise! Wow! Wow! Wow! Again!

And the moon was full and so was the Sun in all its brilliance! I didn’t talk! I felt they were looking at each other lost to the World!

Didn’t feel like disturbing the lovers with the feel of my presence! What a sight!

Not the first time – but yet, felt like it was “my first time” watching them looking at each other – what a beauty!

The sky is the same every day and yet it is not and never the same! What poetic beauty is the creation?

How beautiful is the Creator?

Salutations to HIM and HIS creation!

I came down. But, I lingered on the terrace long after I had left it!

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# moonrise and sunset, miracles of Nature, sky watching, life is beautiful, bountiful are HIS blessings, mindfulness, being in the moment, just BE, beingness, Zen moment, everyday miracles, 

previous post on similar topic https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=moonrise+and+sunset