Grace healings – Mona and Swathi – For being honest about their failures!

 

Grace healings – Mona and Swathi – For being honest about their failures!

Mona and Swathi get 5 days of healings!!!!

Why, you ask?

They just didn’t project a good side of themselves-https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2025/12/here-comes-year-end-of-2025.html?showComment=1767486758275

They shared that they failed in their discipline.

They shared that they did not keep up with their schedules.

They shared that they weren’t in sadhan – enough.

They made a resolution to overcome that this year.

They saw their area of personality that they needed to address.

They did not shy away from accepting it.

Knowing about our weakness is the first step in healing.

And healing CAN START only when we ACCEPT THAT WE ARE LACKING IN THAT AREA!

Those who think “I am good enough to receive all that I need or want” can never get healed. They can’t benefit from any amount of healing from others too!

It needs lots of courage to accept that “I wasn’t good enough. I did not live up to my word. I failed in my promise”.

It is huge!

And for that courage that they exhibited, I appreciate them and show them my appreciation through this way.

May their tribe increase in number.

Next point – Not only did they accept their flaws, they did not give reasons to justify them. They owned it. They didn’t push it on to others.

That is huge again!

Everytime, we fail to be in sadhan or do some good, we have enough of reasons to justify our acts. We try SO HARD  to prove that we are GOOD PEOPLE INSPITE OF NOT HAVING LIVED UP TO THE MARK!

Here, they both did not do that!

My love goes out to them – may they find their strength and go an extra mile in this year of abundance!

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# honesty, you receive as you are worth, grace healings, on mercy, giving and receiving, on beingness, character, how character reflects in our abundance and receiving, 

 

Recipe for happiness!

 

Recipe for happiness!

Don’t make everything about YOU!

Stop seeing “What’s in that for ME?” always!

Don’t keep looking for excuses to make yourself “a victim”.

 

And then, just like that – you’ll have people appreciating you, liking you, being there for you. And even when you weren’t searching for it, “happiness is there for you”.

 

Such a simple recipe and yet, so difficult for all to follow and benefit!!??

 

I wonder why?

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# victim mentality, empowerment, challenges of life, character, our choices, life is beautiful, everything happens for a reason, 

also read previous post https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/02/old-woman-with-rice-stories-and-all.html

Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 

Learning from the Old – As you like it!

 

When put together both “Peace of mind – A boy and the girl and As you like it” the understanding that you exhibited is “…” shared by Mona, Kshitija, Swathi.

I’ll just sum up the understandings:

·        We view the other based on WHO we are! Not on who the other person is!

Once we understand and accept this point, we’ll realize that the judgements that we make of others reflect who we! So, let’s be cautious there.

Next, to accept love, receive love, validate love and to be grateful for the same, we must have given love in the first place. Only then, can we truly understand and appreciate when it is received. Otherwise, entire life though the others keep showering us with love and respect, all we can see and feel is “insult, emptiness, self-pity, loneliness, depression and related feelings and emotions”.

The same applies to other feelings like respect, help, genuinity and so on.

·        If we can’t trust others, it shows we have been cheating others regularly. The more we cheat others, the less we trust others. And then we ask “But, how can I trust Guru/Reiki if they are not fulfilling my THIS wish?”. We can NEVER TRUST anyone in life. We use that word to manipulate the other to dance to our tunes. But, in actuality we can never trust others.

Only the day we become honest in our dealings with others can we trust anyone in life.

Only the day we give others their worth can we trust that we don’t have to cheat or manipulate to receive our due.

Sit on this.

·        Our fear is directly proportionate to our character.

The one who manipulates is full of fear.

The one who lies is full of fear.

The one who cheats, is full of fear.

The one who is pretentious is full of fear.

And we thought, fear was inevitable!! Ha, ha!

The one who is genuine doesn’t fear.

The one who talks truth doesn’t fear.

The one who gives others what is due doesn’t fear.

The one who is true, doesn’t fear.

Now, it’s up to one and all to decide if we need to live with fear or not!

The Degree of fear in the person reflects various attitudes that need to be healed in him.

·        People you meet, interact and get involved with in your life are so because of “who you are!”

Change the way you are and the same person’s behavior changes for better.

Remember, “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF YOUR INNER WORLD” OR IN OTHER WORDS “YOUR OUTER WORLD IS THE REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE”.

The Only way to change your World is to change yourself!!

These are just a few of the points. 

Read the posts suggested and meditate on them.

Look at reasons for not understanding more. Heal them. Then, take up the links and read them again and receive better understanding. 

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# boy and the girl, emotions, peace of mind, you are what you read, situations don’t make or break us we do, outer world reflection of inner world, change yourself change your world, changing the World, World peace, mass energies, perspective, understanding, clarity of thought, fear, fearlessness, trust, 

January - A trial month!

 

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January - A trial month!

The person who owns up his choices and bears the consequences of the same has grown in stature. He has strength that comes from “soul character”. One who works for this is the one who is walking towards his well-being and good. That is the test that tells a man that is walking the ‘spiritual path’.

The rest are just talking the walk!

Coming to my quote – I took it.

Now, I have to bear the consequences of making that decision.

Either I should live with less number of posts this year or work more to make good the loss.

Many may think since it is not paid and I am not answerable to anyone, does it matter?

Yes, it does!

I KNOW that I could have given more than what I have to this year and that impacts my soul – that is the basis of my self-esteem.

And you thought your respect was received from others?

How you play your roles – especially ones where you don’t receive anything in return decides your soul character. That is the basis of your soul-strength.

I know it is all too heavy. Go, take your time and meditate on it.

Take your time and work on it.

Just keep healing yourself and one day you may see what all this means.

Till then, be honest (the real way) in your work, duties and responsibilities. Give your best in everything that you do – all through the day. That is the secret of increasing soul strength.

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# on choices, consequences of our actions, karma, destiny and fate, decisions, healing, attitudes, character, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2020/05/me-my-guru-on-heaven-and-hell_4.html 

People go around asking questions all through their life. They keep pestering Reiki/God for answers.

And Reiki/God has to answer through a medium. One such medium would be the blog written for you. And yet, when the answer is given, you don't have patience, interest or time to go through the link given to RECEIVE that answer. And you say"Maam, I ask questions in meditation and yet am not given answers. I don't know why God makes you tell such lies.)

How ironic is that "We RECEIVE only when we become worthy of it. Till we heal ourselves enough we CAN'T and WON'T see the answers even if thrown at us umpteen times"!

January - A trial month!

 

January - A trial month!

"January is just a trial month.

The real year starts on 2^nd February this year!" - Quote.

I took this quote seriously and now, see where it put me?

I like the quote. It was funny and felt it ok to follow it and see – just for the heck of it!!

Many times we think our questions are answered when we see a forward or some quote when we are disturbed.

We immediately grab it and apply it. Nothing wrong so far!

But, when questioned, we put the blame on the Reiki/God for giving that answer. That is our problem area.

Beware of that!

Take any choices in life but live with the consequences. If you are weak and frightened to face the consequences of your choices, then you don’t have the right to make choices too.

But, we do. We make choices that are convenient to our tastes. This depends totally on “Who we are at a certain point in the time”. That decides our emotions and feelings. That is the reason we think in a certain way. Until we change the way we are, we won’t be able to move on. We won’t be able to make decisions that are good for us and right for us.

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# on choices, consequences of our actions, karma, destiny and fate, decisions, healing, attitudes, character, 

also read suggested https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2018/03/me-my-guru-on-choices-fate-destiny-and.html 

On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

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            On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

m.     The good news is as wrong deeds come back in our life during “bad times”, our good deeds also come back – WITHOU FAIL in our life – for SURE!

n.     Good deeds include charity, selfless acts, being there for someone, helping someone, choosing right over pleasant, right life-style and habits, right attitude and character and above all sadhan.

o.     So don’t wait for “bad times” to come to do some “good actions” like charity, sadhan, etc.

Do as much as you can every single day of your life.

That way increase your credit of good deeds. This is the only way to run away from pain when you are afraid of facing the consequences of your past actions.

So you see we are not “shaming others” for their wrong deeds. How can we? We don’t have that right! We are not entitled to that power! We are just using their life situations as road maps and understanding to read and understand the “laws of the Universe” clearly.

We are raising our trust in the function of these Laws of the Universe.

That way we become smart players in playing the “The Game of the the life”!

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# real life situations, karma, fate and destiny, you receive what you give, 

 

 

 

 

 

On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

 

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On understanding Karma in real-life situations Series

Now coming to the first point – how karma impacts our lives and how it shapes our future – this case study is ‘practical lessons’ that we have taken from others’ lives. The Intelligent ones learn from their mistakes.

A wise man learns from others’ lives and mistakes.

And a fool thinks he doesn’t need to learn as he already knows it all!

How to understand these case studies:

1.    We are not here to judge others with these case studies. That’s why no name is given in these studies.

2.     My motto is not to malign their character or name. I would’ve given names if it was so! Many of these people are not even Reiki channels(RC). None of them you would meet in life. Such are the cases that are given to you – well, mostly.

3.     This exercise is not that you complain or malign or question some person’s acts or character

4.     By seeing how karma impacts or comes back into someone’s life, we’ll become more aware of how “The Law of Karma” works. Here I’ll point out a few points to you:

a.     Every wish comes true: it’s just that it may take janmas to be fulfilled. https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/05/draupadi-mahabharata_11.html

b.     Our wish may come in any form – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2014/05/draupadi-mahabharata_11.html

c.      Even a small attitude will face its consequences accordingly – https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=pandavas+and+dog

d.     The person with wrong intent even if blessed with the boon ends up meeting his doom because of it.

Boon in our case can be a post, position, material wealth, beauty and so on – BASMASURA https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2019/07/blessing-that-turned-into-curse-me-my_26.html– 

REAL LIFE SITUATION https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2024/10/me-my-guru-working-of-karma-noted-in.html

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# real life situations, karma, fate and destiny, you receive what you give, 

On being truthful!

 

On being truthful!

“Practice truthfulness. Twelve years of absolute truthfulness in thought, word and deed gives a man what he wills” – Swami Vivekananda.

Read what the Swamiji says again and again to get it right.

He says – Practice truthfulness for twelve years. No bending the rules there. Practice should be in toto – IN THOUGHT, WORD AND DEED. Only then, the sadhan is complete. We can’t bend the rule to our convenience and then demand that we gain the power to materialize our thoughts or desires into reality.

Don’t expect the other – be it your parent, Guru or God to practice it for you and pass over to you the fruit of that sadhan. What would you call a person who expects so? What are the qualities that you associate with such a person?

Now, coming to our “Practice truthfulness” – sit on it.

Meditate on it.

Think about it.

And then, come back with your thoughts.

All your thoughts when put together may actually give you a better perspective.

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# being truthful, honesty, character, destiny, power over fate, becoming powerful, overcoming Nature, yogic practices and their benefits, 

read further on this topic https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/2017/02/on-feedbacks-etc.html 

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