On healing, Guru , God and all........

On healing, Guru , God and all........

Healing did not let miracles happen in our lives...

No, healing was not the wand that would be swung by someone and boom! the magic happens! It never is so.....


Don't believe anyone who says or declares so......

Any person who knows anything about healing wouldn't say so.....

Only the people who 'go around healing or teaching healing' to others by way of memorizing some sentences and stories would go around telling so as they know nothing about healing and how it works and why it doesn't .....

Then why healing and so many techniques?

It removes the blocks that stop the healing from happening in our lives that is being done by Nature, God and Guru's (those who heal and are in sadhan - not someone with some paper in their hand to declare them as so...)

and the second most important thing it does is it opens up our blocks (mental and psychological) ones which stop us from seeing and being open to all the miracles and healing happening around us.....

it gives us maturity to validate the work done by 'God, Gurus and Universe' by way of providing and protecting - whom we are so ever angry at and complaining about all our lives inspite of them fulfilling our umpteen wishes at every point of time....

Why?

Either because we have moved on to newer desires or have ended up being disgusted with the 'desire' that we so desperately wanted sometime back.....and now we are angry at them for having fulfilled it in the first place....

Please, take a break! Check within and yourself and ask "What exactly is my problem?"

If you yourself don't know and don't want to take time to know it, then what ever comes your way, you will forever be complaining about that - for sure!

So, before crying, complaining or being angry know why you want what you want and then take the next step...

and NO - NO ONE can make it happen in a jiffy for you....if you are not for healing then you can take the usual road of crying and gathering pity, seeking pity and putting the blame on to others for not living up to your expectations and not being there for you to fulfill your desires / wishes........

but the question still remains the same "but still you are where you are when you started - unhappy, angry, frustrated, selfish, hurtful and unsatisfied and in pieces......"


So, i repeat, ask yourself "How am i being a problem to myself? What is that 'wrong' decision that i take which always gets me to this place of 'no happy zone'?"

take time to talk to yourself and go within.....it is no short cut, but if you don't want to spend time with yourself knowing about self, then why would someone else be interested in being with you, knowing you and working for your happiness? 

On strength!

 

On Strength!

" Every idea that strengthens you must be taken up and every thought that weakens you must be rejected " - Swami Vivekananda.

Every pain that is cause of your suffering must be addressed and healed. Don't expect miracles unless you sit to accept that you are the cause of your pain. Don't expect things to fall in place unless you take the responsibility of healing in your hands.

And once you start healing, don't count the days! Stop asking "already healing since one week/month/X no. of days". 

You have been eating for the last 30/40/50 years and more too.....thrice a day plus tea/coffee/aerated drinks in between. Also add fruits, sweets, ice-creams, snacks in between. And yet we never ask "how many more years do I need to eat?" Even as we are having our breakfast we are discussing what and where to eat lunch. As we are having lunch, we plan our dinner. And yet, we don't seem to get vexed of it. 

Apply the same principle to healing too! As you charge your cell phone, generators day in and day out and never get tired of it, learn to be in sadhan every single day of your life.

You owe that to yourself and your life. In spite of having eaten food you fall sick, become weak and grow old. One eventually dies too! And yet we don't question our 'eating'. We don't ask "Why should we eat if we are any how falling sick inspite of eating?"

Why eat when we eventually going to die?

Why eat when we will any how become old?"

Then why those questions to 'healing'? 

Think about it! 

The way you perceive healing is wrong. Not the healing by itself!

No one is answerable to you for the results.

Do it or leave it - you receive as per your decision.

# on healing, results of healing, pain and how to address it

Questions addressed :

How long to heal?

Why things are not going my way inspite of healing since a month? 

What is the purpose of healing and how it should be addressed?

The man and the frogs

Contd.....

Stories and all - Man and the frogs

We think we need to address ‘so many issues’ for one thing or person to go right but all it takes is sending only ‘one frog’, fear, out of our mind pond!

The problem is not the situation. The problem is the way we see it; the place we see it.

We ‘think’ we need to address this. We ‘think’ we need to handle and correct it. We ‘think’ we are responsible for all the ‘bad’ imaginary happenings! But the fact is ‘we’ are not! And the cause is the other frog called ‘ignorance’. Our ignorance makes us believe that we are the makers of fate and destiny of our near and dear ones! That is wrong! All we have to do is ‘catch’ this frog and ‘throw’ it out of the ‘mind pond’, and lo! Our life is peaceful!

How to catch this frog? Simple! Build your ‘trust’ in Reiki/God, as the case may be, and they will do the job!

Ramana Maharshi says “once you sit in the train, it’ll carry both you and the luggage to the destination. Similarly, let Reiki/God carry you and your desires to the destination!”

Why are you carrying your luggage after taking ticket and sitting in the train? The answer is, again, ignorance.

Trust – trust Him to do the needful. But our own fear says “what if this doesn’t happen?’ or “what if what shouldn’t happen, happens?”.

Fear of change

In both cases, when you do Reiki, things go your way. You have your experiences to fall back on for this! When this happens, it is good! 

Contd....... 

# trust, surrender, karma, expectations, conditions, advice, help and love, pain and suffering, you are what you read 

related posts on this topic : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=surrender 

Questions addressed : 

• Why do we have so many problems in life?
• Why does one problem goes when the other comes?
• How to solve my problems in one go?
• What is the cause of all my problems?

Points to be understood :

• When repeatedly it is projected, told, explained so many times that ignorance and fear are the root of all the problems why then do we not solve them? Why don't we just sit to solve it say for atleat 6 months at a stretch?
• Why do we just READ this blog and move on in life as if by just reading we have done some 'favour' on Guru,Reiki, God or Universe? And over and above that we even expect results for that?!?
• Why are we talking about our 'tensions and worries' instead of spending time on healing them?
• The afternoon 1-2pm time /slot is cancelled in our healing session. That is for you to do healing on your own. Be it chanting or self healing etc. Then how come few are behaving as if they got 'holiday' from school? They don't think they need to spend that time for healing? Look at your attitude before commenting on others!
• Healing takes years of sadhan - not because it is so hard or long process. But because our heart doesn't want to leave the comfort of suffering for long. We have our reasons and justifications to come back to our original (present) state of being in pain. 
• Want strongly to overcome your any 'attitude' then dropping it is just a matter of one 'thought!"
• As long as we think the "other" is responsible for our problems and suffering, we end up victims of our situations and circumstances......Instead know we attract our situations and people in life........there must be a reason we had attracted them in the first place.....accept it, know it, own it and heal it. When you heal it, first you get strength to face it, then clarity and awareness that it is a blessing which you were taking for a curse, then you heal it to transform it and finally you transcend it.........
• I agree it is a long process and a boring and difficult one - but that is the only one I know..........if you know of other method please feel free to stop being here, stop doing reiki and follow it - that gives you happiness your way.......

Me, my Guru – on healing servants, maids and helpers

Me, my Guru – on healing servants, maids and helpers

“Guruji, it may seem stupid and irrelevant to you but my life and discipline goes for a toss because of my maid!” complained Vijaya.

We all laughed. Yes, it did seem very simple and stupid. At the same time we all faced this pain and problem one time or the other in our life. And so we could relate with her suffering and complain. And yet I felt disappointed with the flow of discussion today. It seemed like one of those ‘wasted days’ for me when I didn’t take back anything worth a dime. I was very practical person always bothered and assessing what and how much I benefited by coming here. This was my regular affair. This hasn’t changed much over the years. Why even while listening to her talk and lecture I would listen only if it benefited me or was useful to me in some way. Many times, it had thrown away precious gems given in abundance by her rather carelessly because it didn’t suit my taste or liking. Today I felt it would be same. I had already lost interest in the talk!

Vijaya continued her complaint “my maid says she has to go to her village once fortnight to stand by her daughter whose husband was drunkard, useless, jobless and trying to sell her land to make money. I have to end up doing the job sometimes. Else I need to beg others’ servants to come and work for couple of days. All my time goes in this searching for maid, waiting and being treated. These servants are so arrogant and so unprofessional. They don’t feel bad about their clumsy way of doing work and being absent for so many days! Disgusting!” 

Contd..... 

# simple problems of life, challenges of life, acceptance, solutions, pain and suffering, healing issues of life

also reads : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=difference+between+master+and+shishya 

Food for thought : 

• Why we don't see a solution even when there is one?
• Why are we so lost in the problem and trying to find why it came in the first place instead of 'simply healing' it?
• Change is ONLY THING certain in life. Sooner we accept it lesser will we suffer. But more we want things to go our way the more we suffer and we assume that others are responsible for our suffering.
• As long as we justify the cause of our suffering to be others, even when we heal it takes longer to heal and we become more agitated with the healing process too....
• Heal - many times it is enough to address the issue. Sometimes no healing can bring the difference in the way things are happening in life. Even then if we keep healing then first it calms us and keeps us stress free and second it gives us a solution to our problem in some other way - for sure! (if you are open to seeing it)
• Life is good and easy - don't mess it up trying to live it in your brain......

Gratitude Time :

If any of you have received any blessing from reiki - time to show some gratitude. 

Share at least one of your experience of having received 'a wish fulfilled' miracle in your life in the blog!

This post will run for 2-3 days. Share at least one experience of yours per day here.

Share how you did reiki to address a simple day to day issue of your life and how it got resolved. Simpler the issue better. 

share your experience so that one of you can keep up his morale high........

Bhagavatam – Krishna answers King Dhritarashtra

Contd….

Bhagavatam – Krishna answers King Dhritarashtra

Every day we eat, every day we clean dishes.

Every day we experience, every single day we carry some impressions and hence and thus cleaning and healing are eternal process of living. Come let’s embrace life in its completeness! Let’s not exclude healing out of it. It’s like saying; I want to eat but won’t do the dishes. Such are the people who blabber “I want to just enjoy in life. I don’t want to heal’. Know what you mean when you say something!

Here it just means “I am a person who wants rights but not responsibilities. I want to be a taker everywhere and never a contributor in any relationship or otherwise. I want to be a lazy person enjoying someone else’s hard work. I am to be waited for and not the person who would fend for self”.

No one can have rights in exclusion of responsibilities! But at the same time, no one can force you to do the healing NOW! You are welcome to walk out of that part of your life. But as Dhritarashtra, face the returns as and when it comes into effect! Choice is yours! No one can question you or force you to heal it now. It’s just that if we are given an opportunity to know the process of healing now, then why not now? Why postpone it to a later time where we can’t be sure of our capabilities and situations of life which may or may not be conducive to heal?

So, come let’s treat life as a whole! Let’s embrace completeness completely! Let’s heal as we experience our lives too!

Concluded....

related posts : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=why+healing

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=emptiness

On healing others!

 

On healing others!

There is borewell drilling going on in the neighbour's house since 2-3 days. Headache is severe for me! I was and am doing everything to beat the headache. Someone who called couldn't hear me talk and asked me to talk louder. I said I couldn't as the sound of the drilling was deafening and it was making it difficult for others to hear my voice. The other person simply said "Oh! So sad you have to deal with it till they hit water. God knows how long it will be?!"

That did it!!! 

It was then I realized that I was seeing this situation as one giving me pain and discomfort. That gave rise to anger, frustration, all questions of why it is happening to me etc etc, irritation and of course headache. No sleep in the night too! But, but if ONLY I had seen it as an opportunity to heal I would have healed for 'let them strike water at the earliest' and they would have struck water earlier and I would be saved from all this non-sense. 

When ever there is a situation that is uncomfortable, disgusting, not to our expectations and conditions etc we go on the blame game. We find reasons outside ourselves to find the cause. We ask useless, baseless and leading to no where questions like 'why did Reiki let it happen?' etc........

Instead if only we healed the situation, we would be out of our agony earlier than later. 

The common intelligent question people ask is "But why should I end up healing all and sundry? And I don't have time for the same? Why can't they just be right?"

The answer is simple "Because you are effected in this situation and you know how to heal. If you don't want to heal, good - then learn not to suffer inspite of the situation. And if you say, I don't want to learn that too - good for you too - be who you are and enjoy the pain and suffering. But remember, there is no answer for all of your questions and no solution to any of your problems!!!"

If you understand this you'll also understand 'No man is an Island'. We are connected to one another whether we like it or not and hence only when we heal what is painful for us can we as a group get healed.........

# on healing, on healing others,  no man is an island, 

also read suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=sharing

https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=we+all+are+connected 

regarding healing

regarding healing


it was nice to hear so many of you come back with your varied experiences with regards to our healing sessions......

let me also confirm your experiences to be valid ......they are in sync with the healings that i am doing during these sessions.....


so good going there......

it tells that you are healing regularly and that it is healing your awareness area ......

just don't compare with others' experiences.....each of your experience is right......trust me on that!

'what did healing give us? How do we know that we are on the right path?' is the common question you ask regularly.....


this awareness that is evident is the answer.....keep healing......

at the start of our journey most of us are insensitive to our surroundings, experiences, vibrations, energies and all that.......as we keep healing our awareness level increases.....


your 
journey from 'that' start to here is the 'growth' in you because of your healing.......everything doesn't reflect only in materialistic things......these things are more important and the healing goes there too - don't worry only the small part has gone there for you all........

what does this healing or increase in awareness tell us?

• that the chatter in you mind has come down a bit
• your confidence to share your experiences with others reflect you have healed part of your fear 
• you are enjoying the process without questioning why's and how's of it for atleast a short span of time.....
• you have tasted the 'real joy' area of yourself.....

and for all the fears not yet healed, for all the doubts not yet cleared and for all the stress of the future's uncertainty and for all the regrets of the pasts, remember "THIS TOO SHALL PASS!"

No time stays with you for you wish for it. No time goes away for you hate it. It has its own rhythm and pace. It will come and go at its own pace and style! Just let it pass by! and once again remember "This too shall pass!" - for all in the world, but to a healer it goes by giving some good in return if he is in sadhan during bad or tough times.......

Tough time shows you the area that you need to address - be it fear, anger, hatred or poor emotional health.....work on yourself .......don't waste this time and get benefited from this 'tough time' too!

also reads suggested : https://kantipadam.blogspot.com/search?q=awareness